Is kissing/making out a sexual act or is it just an affectionate act?

[Anonymous]

It is sexual

It is just affectionate

[ChrisMaster69]

Kissing is just a thing, not even really affection

At my Dads funeral back in January 2020, I must have been kissed by 30 women over 80.

it’s nearly Christmas time, mistletoe is out soon, it’s a custom to give a kiss under it.

Then with kissing, is it lips, cheek, neck etc.

a simple kiss can mean almost anything, it can be nothing to a sign of utter love or lust.

Making out is by virtue of what it is more sexual, or sensual in nature.

A kiss however is often just a kiss

[t-8900]

It depends on the context and the intentions of the individuals. not gonna go down the rabbit hole in the thread because the argument was going south fast. But the idea that "you dont do it to your mother or kids therefor it's not an act of affection" I would say the love you have for SO is different from the love you have from a Parent or your child. To me the answer is both. But that wasn't an option so I'll just say it here, both.

[Asker]

Yeah I wasn't a fan of that argument, because I don't think holding hands is a sexual act and yet I wouldn't do it with my mother or child. With perhaps some exceptions where I might playfully squeeze my child's hand or something, but it wouldn't be the same thing as with a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Kissing is not necessarily, but making out is almost always for me.

[Asker]

You mean because it leads to sexual things or because the making out in and of itself is sexual?

[Opinion Owner]

Because most of the time it will turn me on. And also not something I would do with like a friend, friends (girls) I have kissed for fun a lot..

[kyleelyn199723]

A kiss is affection, making out is sexual and intimate

[Exterminatore]

Me and my ex wife had this debate constantly. A peck on the lips - affectionate. Tongue kissing - sexual. That’s how I see it.


She’d piss me off. Complain I never kiss her and I’m like: “are we gonna f*ck? No? Then why are we tongue kissing.”

[Luopio27]

In Thailand, all gestures of relationships like holding hands, kissing and so is considered distespectful if done so in public.


It creates envy, anxiety, depression and so on to those who have known nothing but rejection their whole lives. Its like putting starving people watch rich people eat the most luxury food infront of their eyes.

[lonestar_01]

Question, how would your girlfriend or boyfriend feel if you kissed/made out with a guy friend or female friend in front of them? Would they say, "Oh that's so affectionate and friendly!" No? Therefore, it is sexual. No argument there.

[Asker]

So under that logic you would believe that holding hands is a sexual act? Because I would feel the same way about a girlfriend who held hands with another guy

[ZackBan]

The more tongue you put into it the more sexual it is.
Granted it leans towards sexual more than affectionate to begin is.
I suppose a smack is the only form of kissing that can be completely non sexual

[LikeALog]

It depends on the kiss.

A peck on the cheek or a light kiss on the lips is just an affectionate act.

A long kiss and embrace is a prelude to a sexual act.

Making out can be both.

Heavy making out can be a sexual act.

[Anonymous]

Depends. There is a wide range of kissing. I think small pecks like goodnight kisses, kisses on the forehead, etc. are affectionate. Making out is sexual though.

[Asker]

Where do you draw the line between affectionate kissing vs making out? Would you say that if Any tongue is used then it is making out and therefore is sexual?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I'd say tongue definitely makes it sexual, but things like hand placement, passion, etc. can also make it sexual, even if there's no tongue involved.

[askandgiveAnswers]

U mean using tongue? Smiles

[loveslongnails]

Wouldn't that depend on the type of kissing you're doing. However, to a guy it's just affection even it's a double cheek kiss to a friend. To his jealous girlfriend watching the whole thing, ITS SEXUAL !!! LOL

[Subarugirl]

Let me ask you this, would you make out with your mother or child? No? Then it is a sexual act.

[OneManOnly01]

Another question for you, do you only spill toxic garbage out of your mouth?

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 so you would make out with your mother or child? I mean if it's not a sexual act then why not go make out with some of your friends?
Am I wrong?

[OneManOnly01]

Many mothers kiss their children on the cheek. And why are you such a male hater by the way?

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 I did say anything about kisses, I said that making out with someone is a sexual act. Are you saying that it isn't?
Oh I don't hate men, actually there are very few people that I hate. I just don't tolerate bigotry, hypocrisy, misogyny, abuse and toxic behavior.

[Still-alive]

this guy feels like a troll hmmm

[OneManOnly01]

The question’s about kissing or making out but you’re predenting like you didn’t even see that part.

And it’s very clear from your comments how much you hate men. Even on a question about lions and tigers, you go out of your way to insult men. What excuse do you have for that?

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 dude lay off her. go away

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 Because kissing and making out are two different things... A peck on the cheek isn't sexual, but making out is. Was what I said wrong?

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive Why are you so butthurt? You’re her BDSM slave?😂

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 nah but you're clearly trolling. go harass someone who wants it

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive Who is your mistress?

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 oh no honey, I'm the slave in any BDSM dynamic I chose to be in. This gentleman is just intelligent enough to know bull shit when he sees it.

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 your mom is ;)

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 anyway shouldn't you be in school bud?

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive What are you into? Drinking people’s piss?

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl How old are you 24? But how old is your brain?

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 talking about yourself there? hmm

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 why do you have such a chip on your shoulder? Who hurt you?

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 no thanks. you can have it all yourself

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 years ahead of you apparently, I think your pathetic attempts at insults more than prove that.

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl I can see you have him by the balls, you’re very good at fooling men like him

[Asker]

@subarugirl under that logic though would you say that holding hands is sexual? I wouldn't hold hands with my mother or child. With some exceptions with the child like guiding them when walking, or maybe even some just random squeezing of their hand but it's definitely not the same thing as holding hands with a girlfriend

[Still-alive]

@asker if you aren't prepared to hear different answers why bother asking?

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 your mom does though. why don't you quench her thirst?

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 you know im reporting all of this right? soon you'll be modded to hell

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive So you admit you have nothing else to say?

[Subarugirl]

You must not have children if you think that wouldn't hold their hand... there is a difference between physical and sexual affection. A peck on the cheek, holding someone hand, are good examples of nonsexual physical affection. Making out and groping is a good example of sexual affection.
A good way to distinguish the two is ask yourself, is this something that you would do in front of your parent's/pastor/employer if not, it's probably sexual.

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 you seem like you got nothing to say. you just wanna shame women apparently.

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 lol you really are quite the little troll aren't you

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive Your were defending her so bad but your crush abandoned you to get embarrassed here😂

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive lol well he can "try"

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 nah i just get off at fucking with assholes like you. you should feel honored you are in my crosshairs ;)

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl Why did you abandon your little pup? He’s so loyal to you but you abandoned him. You’re so meeeaaan!! 😭

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 nah its all for you buddy. if you think any of this is gonna make me go away you;re mistaken

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 honestly I don't even know who he is, apart from a gentleman and decent human being, that you would even know what that looks like.

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 the real question here is why you are so obsessing with drinking pee... weirdo

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl I’m just trying to help him

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 you're the one who brought it up so you;re the obsessed one. now drink it all up mister!

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive you who what odd his obsession with drinking pee, I think we found ourselves a little deviant. I mean if he get off on being humiliated like this he could have just asked

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 no thanks. have it all for yourself. or give the rest to your mom. i hear she loves it

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive Someone should get this poor boy a straw, he sounds thirsty.

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive Look dude, she’s really gotcha right by the balls. She’s ordering you around like you’re her pet

[Still-alive]

@Subarugirl yeah i almost feel sad for him for not being able to drink it this whole time. smh

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 your attempts at emasculating me are pretty funny, but are not working nonetheless. you'll need a new tactic

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive I mean he could have just asked, There are plenty of guys on here that I sure would be more than happy to oblige

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive let the poor kid have his fun. He will figure it out eventually

[OneManOnly01]

@Still-alive I’m not emasculating you. @Subarugirl She is..😂

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 I can already tell that he is way more of a man than you will ever be. If you feel emasculated by me, that speaks more to you fragile masculinity than anything else.

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 nope i've come here on my own accord. people like you need to be expelled from this site forever.

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl Your pup is really a clueless fool. You got’em by the balls but the fool doesn’t have a clue. No wonder you only can only fool stupids like him

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 Kiddo.. the only fool here is you

[OneManOnly01]

The one with a 5 year old’s brain calling other people ‘kiddo’😂

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 honey, my 4 year old has better people skills than you do.

[Still-alive]

@OneManOnly01 i just notified a mod, so your time here is numbered

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl Eww don’t call me honey, I don’t associate myself with toxic people. Use those words for your pup if you want

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive thank you. I’ll call in the support too.
@loves2learn @PrettyPriya @chrismaster69 I don't know but you guys might find this interesting

[Subarugirl]

@OneManOnly01 oh sorry that’s just how I interact with children… you want to be treated like a big boy, act like one

[OneManOnly01]

@Subarugirl Again, the five year old calling others children

[PrettyPriya]

@Subarugirl

Already aware. @Still-alive notified me. I think this conversation is over here.

[ChrisMaster69]

@OneManOnly01 he’s a fuckwit troll that seems to be in to rape.

As any guy accused is falsely accused, typical MEOW cock.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Subarugirl It is constantly trolling across the site.

[Still-alive]

ahhh now i can lean back and watch him implode ;)

[ChrisMaster69]

@OneManOnly01 what is your other account or is it accounts.

Know one needs anything with Troll scum like you, that’s all you are a pathetic troll.

@PrettyPriya it has more than one account.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Subarugirl I say one thing and it blocks me.

I’ve reported this account.

Admin can sort it out, they are getting good at killing multiple accounts.

There was a question earlier about why people are leaving GaG, this troll is a prime example.

[Subarugirl]

@Still-alive oh I so plan on it

[Subarugirl]

@ChrisMaster69 you’re so right… I mean if the kid wants attention there are better ways get it

[PrettyPriya]

Ok, I think this is over. Might want to watch it as another moderator may see it as trolling if continued. So long as he is done, should be over. Fair? 👍

[Still-alive]

@PrettyPriya ill keep my eye out for this dude in the future unless admin deletes him lol

[SnakeBoop]

Can be both, either. Depends a lot on what, who, where etc

[The_Maphio]

Kissing can be affectionate. Making out is definitely sexual.

[ArrowheadSW]

It can be either one, or both, depending on the circumstances.

[cuzimbored21]

Depends. Kissing can be affectionate/romantic, it can also be sexual especially when it goes down to the neck (or below) and involves more heavy making out.

[AviatorTom]

Kissing is affectionate. Making out, which involves lots of kissing and wandering hands, is sexual.

[HellGeist]

It can be both. Depends on the context and duration.

[exitseven]

I can be both. It is definitely sexual the way I do it.

[boobliker]

If your a man It is always sexual to your partner, but if your a girl a kiss is just a kiss. It'S not fare at all.

[Juxtapose]

If you can't do it with your mom, then it is sexual.

[Asker]

So holding hands is sexual?

[Juxtapose]

You can do that with your mom.

[Asker]

What do you mean by "can" and "can't"? By "can't" do you mean it isn't possible or just that people wouldn't do that? Because I wouldn't hold hands with my mom

[Jay3344]

Making out is more sexual l, kissing can be either.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Just affectation but tongue kissing can seriously get me started.

[noohair]

Any time you swap bodily fluids, you expose yourself to STD's.