Should I friend request my high school crush?

[Anonymous]

i have this huge crush on this guy from high school .The thing is I feel like I'm not good enough for him or he'll look down on me.He went off to college , he's in his last year and I'm scrubbing toilets. We met in my senior year in our ap classes and well I just felt a real connection towards him. I don't want him to think I'm such a loswer or what happened. I don't have any commitments towards anyone.No kids, Nothing.So the question really is , will we have anything in common again?

[A_Guy]

After you get outta high school no one cares what happened in high school. I have many people I talk to that I went to school with in HS, and they may have been jerks to me then, but that was the past, same with "not being good enough" in HS people perceived different things about each other, after HS everyone starts doing more of their own thing, and one thing I noticed, the "cool kids" are not so cool anymore for they tend to have no college degrees or good jobs. So go ahead befriend him.

[Habakkuk]

please do, he may have fond memories, and I imagine would gladly accept it. he won't look down on you

[XRabbitHeartX]

Sweety don't be so had on yourself. There's no harm in sending a friend request so stop beating yourself up about him thinking you're a loser cause you're most definitely not. If you were a loser you wouldn't have known it. Send it and see what happens. Life is full of surprises but you gotta make yourself open to these things. You're responsible for opening some doors and you have NOTHING to lose. Don't care what anyone else thinks!

[SuperCurious]

It's a friend request, not a marriage proposal. Just do it :) you never know what could happen

[AmberChick]

There is nothing wrong with a friend request, you are not asking for marriage.

[BCRanger10]

I say do it. You have nothing to lose from sending him a friend request and saying "hi".

[ketchup99]

Go for it. You shouldn't live with that feeling of what could've been.

[doctorwhofan23]

Since you know him go ahead non harm no foul.