How can you tell if a coworker is flirting with you?

[Anonymous]

[MrtoddsWildRide]

If he is building a shrine with pictures of you and a lock of your hair in his cubicle while twice daily staring at you for long periods of time and saying to himself that he wants to "keep you caged in his basement where no harm can ever come to you".

[MrtoddsWildRide]

It's a joke. Please don't DM me about what an awful person I am.

[Asker]

I laughed don’t worry 😂😂😂

[Whateveryousay99]

If they make jokes, friendly touch you, stare at you, ask you personal questions, smile at you

[Anonymous]

Because they make it obvious that they’re flirting with you.
Trust me , if a guy really truly wants you and your attention.. he’s gonna do everything in his power to get it.

you're just gonna know it. There’s no “trying to tell”.

[Whateveryousay99]

That’s absolutely false. Not mentioning shy guys but even confident guys won’t do this all the time. We see beautiful girls at our work place and we like a lot of them, right. You honestly think we’re going to go out of our way for every single one. That’s ridiculous and maybe that was the old school way but 2022 were not that desperate unless the guy is just weird or trying to be a player. Having you’re logic is the reason a lot of women are single. They think a guy is just going to sweep them off there feet without putting in effort too. Nah we’re not chasing and to be brutally honest with you, more guys aren’t cold approaching women because of what some of you started with this #metoo movement. If we like you yeah we’re going to look but you have to show signs. Having a blank face and not showing interest and expecting a guy to be Superman and sweep off your feet is a fantasy that’s only going to play out in your head. By the time you know it, you’re going to settle with a guy you barley like missing out on opportunities unless you’re just dead gorgeous I’m talking 11/10 and most of you aren’t even 8+ with all due respects

[Opinion Owner]

@Whateveryousay99 What opportunities? The opportunity to get an STD from you?
Absolutely not! Go get your 11/10 STD girls!!!

[Opinion Owner]

@Whateveryousay99 And yes #metoo I too have been sexually harassed at my job by some old F*K and some short idiot!!
SEXUALLY….. HARRASSED…..
You’re probably a f**ng R4pi$t!! I seriously hope the cops come for you. Then you can find your 11/10’s in prison 🖕🏼

[Whateveryousay99]

It sucks you were sexually harassed by creeps but than again its hard for me to believe that now if you’re willing to lie on a person you never met on the internet than you’re also probably lying about being sexually harassed. My post wasn’t meant to offend you. Also I’m out of you’re league and never had to go through desperate measures when it comes to girls. I’m also willing to bet the girls I deal with are way more attractive than you inside and out. Also do they call you Wolf because you’re hairy? A razor only cost 2.99 at the very least? If I worked with you I would 100% bring you one and some deodorant to get rid of your funky little attitude.

[Asker]

@Whateveryousay99 Thanks! Yeah I get that about girls putting in some effort too and I do try to approach him some times and start chatting to him first as I do really like him.
I just find it difficult to tell if he is just being really nice to me or if there’s more to it. It’s hard to tell especially at work!

[Whateveryousay99]

Ok I see now. The fact you approach him and talk shows you’re interested. Most girls wouldn't do that unless the guy shows interest first. The ball is in his court now and if he likes you, he will express it someway. What does your gut tell you? Does he like you or no?

[Gwenhwyfar]

She’s smiling like that chick in the pic 😊

Seriously. Tell me how your coworkers been acting around you and I’ll tell you whether I think they’re flirting.

[Asker]

Ok great thanks…
I catch him looking at me often.
He teases me sometimes.
He always gets very close to me when we talk.
When we talk he tells me about personal stuff.
He messages me outside of work.
He likes all my photos.
He’s given me a couple of compliments saying I look nice or that I looked nice in a photo.
He makes comments on things that I wear.
He helps me out a lot at work.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s defo being flirty

[Asker]

Oh no ….

[scooogy]

A female co-worker once hugged me greeting me with "hi bro" and also playfully poked my arm when passing by. But she's happily married.

[888theGreat]

Winking, bragging on what you are wearing. Says nice hair.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

You'd feel it, flirting doesn't go through you

[Sasha_Gee]

Sexual innuendos

[In_Trance]

pay attention

[Thejaydee1]

I dunno