The conversation is going pretty well, with subtle flirting, however due to work I don't have much time to text her throughout the day. I think she probably picks this as a sign that I'm not into her.
Overall she's quite a nice woman.
If there's subtle flirting, and she wants to know more about you, that's a good indication that she likes you and wants to get to know you better. As far as your work schedule, just let her know what your schedule is and when you're available, when's the best time to text/talk... If you see this as just a texting buddy or friendship let her know, if you're hoping it can be more, then also let her know that...
She likes you, and she’s curious about you. Just make sure she knows you’re working so you may not be able to respond quickly.
If she’s reasonable she will understand you have a life outside your phone. Answer her questions when you have time. If you find it’s not going to work give her the respect of not ghosting her and just explain you’re looking for something else.
If you’re interested in her, just ask her if she’s up for a date and take it offline. If not, don’t string her along and definitely don’t flirt with her.
Just be honest with her about your schedule and let her know that you like her. Have you met IRL? Does any of the texting involve sexting?
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Do you want it to end? If you do, let her know.
I was in a somehow similar situation. I met this man, he was older than me and we used to text. He was a great man, used to make me smile, asked me questions about me so did I about him. The problem was he was texting to date while I was purely enjoying talking with him. I did like him, but as a person and friend I didn’t expect us to date because I wasn’t ready for a relationship at that time.
So why don't you ask what her endgame is? How is anyone suppose to know other than her?
This isn't the marvel cinematic universe bro
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