Is it okay to compliment a girl on her cleavage?

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GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

Nooo, I would say to err on the side of caution with this one. I don’t see how this could really end well, even if she was interested.

The exception to the rule being if you have a girlfriend or wife and you know that sort of thing will be seen either as a compliment or a funny joke to her.

But, imagine being the woman - like… what would you say? Like wouldn’t you either think “this dude is creepy and weird” or “that’s funny!” Like you’d probably think it was creepy. In either case, I don’t think it’s what you would want. Like even if she thought it was funny, it’d probably be funny in a “wow, that’s inappropriate” kind of way. What would you hope for… “Uuuuuuuum… thanks?”

No, I don’t see how that could end well. I mean, I know I personally get screamed at for a simple kind compliment, done the way they CLAIM they want to be complimented. If that’s a typical response for something innocent, I don’t see how “nice camel toe” or “nice boobies” or “nice cleavage!”

The only way I’d say something like that is if I’m playing around, I know her well, and I clarify that I’m talking about a ring she’s wearing, and it’s completely innocent. “What… what’d you think I was talking about?” But not many guys can pull that kind of joke off.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

The politically correct answer is "no, absolutely not." In the real world, the correct answer is "it depends."

It depends on where you are, what kind of rapport you've established with the girl, what kind of attitude she has, and whether she's flirty with you already. If you lack confidence and experience, you're almost certainly going to screw it up and fall on your face - it won't go well. But if you know what you're doing, and you are in the right place and talking to the right girl, she might love it.

I'm ugly as a troll, and even I can pull it off pretty often when the situation is right, but there are plenty of places where I would never even make an attempt, because it would be a disaster.

I would FOR SURE avoid doing this with co-workers (unless you have built a really close relationship with them, including outside of work), or service people (waitresses, bank tellers, cashiers, etc.), and pretty much stick to girls you've a been friendly with for at least a little while or girls who have actively flirted with you. Oh, and make sure she's single; you probably don't want her NFL linebacker boyfriend coming to "have a talk" with you.

theothersider · Accepted Answer

If it is a woman you do not know. then I would say no and beside if she has nice tits then she knows she has nice tits. What you can do it if it is a woman you know and you might want to get know better or pay her a complement. Is to complement what she is wearing. Which by extension is telling her she looks good ( tits ass pretty much anything those clothes are covering ) with out having to be like " Wow Samantha, your tits look really nice today" one will get a giggle and a "thank you" the other has a high change of getting you slapped or hauled into HR.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

Not at all unless she's your partner. I'd cringe and leave if someone ever say that to me.

Guy13 · Answer

No. Look into her eyes first. Catch a look at her cleavage and let your eyes 👀 speak. Never say anything as what you do there you will do with others OR you do with everyone….
—Class and Composure-Some women like an admiring voyeur AS LONG AS you are not a creepy sort of guy 😉
—Given your dynamic, she may be aching for you to make comment.-DO NOT as It is a test. Make her comment on subject first. —Shopping is a way they do that. Boobcoming is a good slip-up. Can I pick something out for you…tight “satin” surfer short for instance…
I think it will be readily apparent if she is seeking verbal acknowledgment

TonyV · Answer

That depends on where you find her, alone at a bar or tinder pic then maybe, grocery store or your coworker from the office probably not.

Also hugely depends on how good you look, rules are different depending on how attractive you and don't let the women tell you other wise. A hot guy may get away with saying "good morning beutiful" while a less good looking guy goes to h. r. for saying hello.

You need to know the right times to flirt, and also realize flirting and sexual harasmant are the same thing just depends how she decides to perceive it.

Lliam · Answer

It depends on the circumstances and what you say. You can't just ogle a random girl and say "Nice tits!" You're likely to get slapped hard or accused of sexual harassment.

Have some finesse. If you're standing in front of or next to her, you smile at her and see if she smiles back. You might glance down, smile appreciatively without leering, and say something like "That's a really pretty top." She would understand what you meant but would be less likely to slap you for complimenting her attire.

The rules are different if she is displaying cleavage and engaging in flirty conversation with you. She will have noticed your glances and will be flattered by your compliment.

DaveJord · Answer

I say yes it is if she is putting it out there like that, then why not. I mean it all depends on the circumstances... try to use some charisma about it don't be a creepy dick head about it. Obliviously if she does not want that type of attention then she would not be presenting herself like that to the rest of the world. And if she is then she need to wake up and get her shit together.

I have said something to a women like like shirt I a really like the way it looks on you, and if she come back with something like how rude or what a creep... then I say cover you tits up if you don't what healthy men to notices them hanging out, because your advertising them.

TDDMS · Answer

Sure. I do it all the time. Haven't had a problem yet. When I was in university, a classmate came into the lounge where I was sitting up against the wall after spending the last 24 hours awake. I looked at her, she looked at me, and I said aloud, "I want to rest my head on those nice boobs of yours." She walked over, sat down next to me, and directed my head on to her tits. We had a good time. The women who are exclaiming that it's "creepy" for a man to compliment a woman's tits, are either feminists, ugly women, women who don't live in the real world, etc. But all and all, the ones complaining the loudest in the comment section are extremely fragile and can't handle words. Words have magical powers over them.

Anonymous · Answer

have you learned nothing in your 42 years of life? if all these women say no they don't like compliments on their tits but yet wear shirts or blouses that emphasize their big gigantic funbags then they want guys to notice and pay them compliments on their big watermelon sized milkbags. that no rule only applies to guys who are ugly. if a guy is good looking then they want all the compliments in the world especially pertaining to their big sized knockers. women devour compliments on their bouncing pillow toys like hungry wolves and jackels on freshly new meat. it gives them the egoboost they so desperately crave and the attention they so seek especially when their bouncy fun toys bounce and jiggle up and down and sway side to side in their shirts or dresses

Joker_ · Answer

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CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Oh my God, NO! What the hell is wrong with you? First, here’s a good rule of thumb… if you are not married to a woman, don’t even look at her breasts, but ABSOLUTELY NEVER talk about them… EVER! All it does, is it tells me that out of every part of my body, you not only noticed MY BREASTS! You should NEVER mention any parts of a woman’s body unless you are married to that woman

ShySocialButterfly · Answer

I was recently FaceTiming with a guy friend of mine and he out of no where was like “I didn’t know you had boobs” now granted I had a dif type of bra on that day and they were lookin more plump than usual. He totally caught me off guard. My response “maybe it’s the bra or this shirt, idk”

Browneye57 · Answer

They just think you're 'creepy'. You'll see.
Pretty much the same as 'Nice ass honey'. :)

If you're obviously good looking, or beyond rich, you can get away with it. Hell, they may even want to fuck you. Otherwise, women have made it clear they don't want men talking to them. AT ALL. PERIOD.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a bit of a free-speech absolutist, and entirely against any speech codes, although I can understand why people would find it in poor taste.

It is however rather unfair for people to bring something into the open in a clearly deliberate effort to get attention, but for which nobody is allowed to speak or acknowledge.

Why do we make rules that put people in to such situation of conflict?

Xhuy_006 · Answer

How many tits can ya compliment before being accused of sexual harrasment? None, it'll bhappen just by looking at them. Lol I mean I wish we could, female bodies are living art but whatever. People are snowflakes most the time. Just compliment her top but in a non flirty way cuz BAM sexual harrasment which BAM emotional damage

molonski2 · Answer

Its depends how its done and the circumstances of that encounter , some random individual NO , certainly not , however is the conversation had already gone in a certain direction and you were in a private moment YES. I've done many times , but walking up and " saying NICE TITTS " is not an idealistic approach.

ZackBan · Answer

It's all in the delivery. If the context is correct and you're not being a creep most girls will appreciate the compliment.
That being said there are things much more valuable to a girl that you could be complimenting, mainly anything she's had to work for and not be born with.

ohshee · Answer

Maybe a year down the road and maybe in a joking manner. I'm sure you can find 500 different things to compliment her on for me that's just kind of shallow when I'm sure there's much more important things that you can compliment her on I mean I know you would think she knows that she has boobs and you got to think about all the other guys before you who has probably done the same thing so why even go there

Sixgunsound · Answer

It depends entirely on what the relationship between you and the individual person is. There is no one answer fits all for all women. It just doesn’t work like that. The best general rule no relationship no-fly zone, but some of the women on here say they like compliments so even that general rule isn’t 100% reliable.

Exterminatore · Answer

I’m going to go out on a limb and say if you tell some girl “I just wanted to tell that have a fantastic set of knockers……. and really pretty eyes too” that girl will probably have had her day made by you sir.

Go forth and do great things.

Moose304 · Answer

100% depends on the girl and the situation! One of my friends with benefits's is a Family Law Attorney that used to work in the Commonwealths Attorney's Office. She told me several times during a closing argument in front of a Jury watching the men listening to her boobs! Many times she has reminded a man to stop talking to her boobs! Honestly, I still do it!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd be willing to bet a million I've NEVER complimented a girl on her cleavage! I've said PLENTY about their tits, though!! Like the rack in the picture!! REALLY nice!! A little bigger and I could do Shakespeare from that balcony!!

MCheetah · Answer

In today's society, saying literally any compliment to a woman can be considered "harassment." That's why I don't compliment women anymore unless I know they're not far-left insane.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Has she asked you to? Has she said ANYTHING sexual? No, then the answer is no.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Put it this way, how would you feel if someone said to your Wife, girlfriend, sister, mother, daughter, ‘ lovely Cleavage’ or ‘lovely tits’ Basically it’s not okay really.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on what you want to portray yourself as.

If you comment on her tits she'll most likely dismiss you as a simp.

If you are okay with that then go ahead.

If you want to come off as a gentleman and are hoping to get laid with her one day... I'd say do yourself a favour and hold back a little... Just call her beautiful or attractive or something...

Anonymous · Answer

It's probably best to listen to the ladies on this one when we tell you, probably not a good idea. Your spouse, your boyfriend/girlfriend, your husband/wife, your sister, maybe your gay best friend, sure but some random going "great boobs," is kind of really forward and gross. There is probably no world in which many would enjoy that from a stranger. Just keep the inside head thoughts, inside.

zyxacb · Answer

Unless you've seen her naked I think it's idiotic, as women's boobs can look COMPLETELY when not supported by by bras, covered by shirts... I've seen a woman with huge boobs most men loved admit her own boobs were saggy and ugly naked & show me to prove it.

I think a man who compliments a woman's boobs, unless naked, is proving his own ignorance, and doesn't know what he's doing/talking about.

Valso · Answer

I guess it depends on which cleavage you're complimenting. If it's the cleavage between her legs, I think she'll be OK with it. If it's the cleavage of her haircut, you might wanna be careful there, cuz women are very sensitive on the fashion topic and you can be sure she'll hear everything else BUT what you really said. 😄

Rei13 · Answer

Is this an actual question? No because most girls will be creeped out. Only ok if you’re dating, married, or very close friends.

notwoke · Answer

it is if your rich and great looking and near her age. When I met these conditions it would be well received and now it would not be. The older overweight women who hit on me nowadays would welcome it. but the women I'd like to compliment would be creeped out. Two decades ago before social media people were more social so this kind of thing was more common and accepted. Now your afraid to say hello to a stranger at work as you walk by them in the hall.

Bogoboj · Answer

Like most things in life, it depends on the circumstances.

If she asks "how do my tits look" or "how is my cleavage" then just give an honest answer and don't be a simp.

Or if you go clubbing giving these types of compliments tend to be acceptable or even funny and sometimes you get a 1 night stand out of it so go for it.

But if you are at work then keep your mouth shut!

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

If it's the norm to compliment strangers , and she has on a push up bra, rather than natural cleavage, then yes. 🤣

ManOnFire · Answer

I've done it before, but only with women I know I can talk to like that and they know how to take it well. That's really the key. You can't say stuff like that to every woman, only to women you know well and can be flirtatious with.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Don't see why not. Though obviously you cannot just randomly bring it up. A girl I met the other day straight up asked does my ass look good. So longs if there is opening for a answer you can always do it.

dustybiker · Answer

One way to get GaG hits. The question, and a different sort for the action.

jshm2 · Answer

Why? What are you expecting? Ah! Here feel them, they are really soft! In fact just put your face between them. You will really love the moterboat!

Don't go places you are not invited, bucko. Ladies hate that.

Anonymous · Answer

If my girls are on display, it's for a reason. I get offended when people pretend not to notice or look away.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Funny how lots of girls like to argue that boobs isn't a sexual organ and it's ok to just go topless but would also make it a big deal if someone just compliments it.

bellesmith17x · Answer

If it’s just a general compliment about you and not just your boobs I’d say it’s fine. For me though I wouldn’t be disgusted if someone was too compliment my breasts just simply ignoring them I don’t see the fuss personally if they like tried to force something then it would be a problem other then that I don’t really care what someone says

fonduegirl · Answer

Be subtle about it.

Like, "I love your boobs!" Can land you in trouble. But "what a figure! I'm blessed" can be somewhat a compliment and while they'd know you were referring to boobs, they'd be okay with you doing so.

Lowiu · Answer

Unless you're romantically or sexually involved or she asked you , no dont do it

Anonymous · Answer

sure why not? If she's all about showing it off, then she should be okay with people telling her how it looks I think. She ain't wearing that for comfort. They make full coverage ones that wouldn't leave her boobies almost popping out and they're every bit as comfortable, according to women who actually aren't trying to show off their tits to everyone.

AviatorTom · Answer

Saying "Nice tits" or "I like your cleavage" is crude and rude. It would be okay to compliment the woman by saying something like "You look very good in that top."

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Absolutely not. I’ve seen women take offense to fairly mild compliments, complimenting her cleavage is a very big no-no. Not if you value your social status.

Amy10223 · Answer

To me, if a man I didn't know well complimented me on my chest or cleavage, I think that would be a tad disrespectful.

Miristheiss · Answer

Sure.  I guess it depends on 1. the specific girl and 2. the way you do it.  I'm sure some won't like it regardless and some will if you do it in a sweet, playful, charming way.

FatherJack · Answer

Men should never compliment woman on anything related to her appearance. Unwritten social rules state such compliments are acceptable ONLY from other women. Anything remotely sexual is a huge no , women find that disgusting.

alice55 · Answer

Honestly there's a high chance of her taking it badly (like sexual harassment) I would say it's better to avoid it unless you know the woman well.

cryscrys1 · Answer

Why the need to compliment? Keep it to yourself it’s called being classy

EmmaMary · Answer

If she's asked you then  Yes ... If she hasn't then  No ... Simples!

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t do that. Disrespectful. Our boobs are for carrying milk for our babies and men have made them into this sexual thing. It’s cringey and perverted. Don’t look at someone’s cleavage and don’t sexualise our bodies.

DrAdams · Answer

Depends on the context really, and who well you know the person. Keep in mind I would consider how the person would react before saying anything.

rayanderson · Answer

Yeah why not is just a compliment and if there is nothing between you guys then it okay

zagor · Answer

A girl I worked with was walking down the street one day when a guy in a car pulled over and motioned her over. Thinking he was going to ask for directions she walked over. He pointed and said, "Nice tits!" and then drove off.

KatherineJ · Answer

If she isn’t your girlfriend, or wife? Definitely not!!!

one1wild00 · Answer

From what I understand is think it to yourself, tell a guy friend, but Never Never Never... Never tell a gal she has nice cleavage. IF you do and you are extremely lucky you might only get a star producing slap to the face.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

If we're dating or in a relationship yes but no other than that.

virtue2332 · Answer

Would it be ok for a girl to compliment your cleavage.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I think only girls with low self esteem would take it as a compliment.

boobliker · Answer

she will love any comment you give. i think it's the most stunning part a girl

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I mean how would you do it an example please , I don't see how someone couldn't be offended by that if they are mediocre people

Dargil · Answer

If she has sent you the image, yes it is. If it is public with a random girl, no it isn't.

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