Should I trust my gut feeling?

[Louisiana1989]

So I have been staying at one of my sisters because her boyfriend is working out of state. my boyfriend spent one week with me but this week he isn't. Now I could here the whispering the other night and it seems like every time we are doing something like playing cards she will say give him cards before me Like I needed 4 more cards but she waits and when he tells her how many he needs she gives him cards first or when she won a round she takes all the money and leaves extra money in there for him so he doesn't have to put up any when normally she doesn't do that and all of a sudden when I get back from the bath room they decide they ready to stop playing and my boyfriend wants to go home to get ready for work and when I say just stay tell you have to go to work he says he left tools out. Ok we have cameras at our house so he can see if anything would happen to his tools for one and two your tools have already been out all night so why are you so worried about them now. Am I just being crazy are does this seem a little off to anyone else. And let me also say that I know my sister has messed around with another sister's husband at one time. My sister and her husband were separated but that doesn't really matter. At least night to me so I mean to me she could do it again. If anyone could give me something to help with this I'd really appreciate it. Thanks.

[its_amelia_c]

Talk to your sister, talk to him. Tell them how you are feeling. Tell them you feel silly but you can’t get the feeling out of your head and you just rather address it then keep stewing on it.


You will see how they react. Or you will be able to have a good conversation that reassures you that everything is ok and your just being silly and paranoid.


It’s not going to go away. You will never know until you approach it. It’s all about how you approach it. Be calm, cool and don’t accuse, just explain things and talk it through.

[Louisiana1989]

Thanks that is really helpful and what I needed to hear. I really appreciate it.

[its_amelia_c]

You are very welcome xx I hope it goes well x

[TheMajesticKing777]

Gut feeling never lies and his reaction seemed like he was uncomfortable and left to avoid something that seems I guess maybe your sister has started, I might be wrong tho but either ways his change of emotions is definitely a bit strange, avoid your boyfriend and sister being together just in case

[Louisiana1989]

Thanks thats a smart idea.

[boggboss]

Why would he decide not to stay if somthing was going on and is it a case of not trusting him or u insecure that she is trying to steal him

[Louisiana1989]

Well he has cheated before. And like I said I know she has messes around with our other sisters husband. And it was just strange to me that they both say they done playing cards yet she. Is still up and he is only still here because he knows I an made. If they are messing around he isn't gumna stay here because I'm up so that does them no good he is gunna want to leave so he can at least text her without me seeing.

[boggboss]

Lol so u are sourpunded by 2 cheaters and wondering if they will cheat together thats on you I guess as this is the situation u have put yourself in its impossible to know without finding out but its clear u trust neither of them

[boggboss]

If they are fooling around avoiding them being together would be too late if u think they are texting behind your back already

[Louisiana1989]

I don't trust anyone and I don't put anything past them either. But I guess that's what I get for being nice. I was just wanting to know if it seemed odd to anyone else or if I was just over thinking the situation.

[boggboss]

Why would u be in a relationship if u don't trust at this point you are the one allowing this situation to happen by being with someone u don't trust

[Louisiana1989]

Because we are working on things at the moment. But none of that matters because like you said I put myself in this situation.

[boggboss]

Its shit but pretty much if u have no trust with him yeah