My male coworker sends me messages late in evening and we talk about non related work things. Is he flirting with me?

[Tinytina09]

[Paul_in_Indy]

Yes.

I hesitate to say it, but, realistically: He’s probably jerking off while you chat.

[Tinytina09]

LOL I don't know about that. But he sends me videos to help me fall asleep too.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Oh, yeah, he is.

[Tinytina09]

@paul_in_indy he doesn’t text me every day though. I don't know maybe I read into it too much.

[Xtendable]

I think he’s enjoying the non-work related interactions

[WraithRogue04]

maybe? depends on the messages

[Tinytina09]

Lots of smileys, playful compliments like “wow, Mike was right. You are really funny.” And called me a fancy girl, sends me things to help me fall asleep, questions about myself outside of wrok (hobbies), sent me a couple pics of him rock climbing etc

[WraithRogue04]

yes, sounds like flirting!

[Tinytina09]

He was messaging me at like 9pm 10 pm a few times.
Also another male colleague told me casually “yeah he likes you he thinks you’re cool”

[WraithRogue04]

sounds good to me

[Tinytina09]

He doesn’t live in my city tho. He did tell me next time he’s here we should get coffee and work together.

[WraithRogue04]

Yes, he likes you for sure.

[Beautiful_loser30]

He definitely wants to fuck you

[joeldalton]

yes.

[AFretiredTXn]

Yes, of course

[Tinytina09]

I wonder if I make him horny

[AFretiredTXn]

Probably

[AFretiredTXn]

Do you ever chat that way?

[Tinytina09]

Nope haha