How to talk or flirt with a guy at gym?

[Girlalx123]

Let me give you context, I'm attracted so hard to this guy at gym and I really want to talk to him, but I don't know how to start, actually I dont even know how to start a conversation with anyone tbh. This might be silly but please give me so advice. Thanks

by the way he is never alone, he is always with some other guys.

[Shehnaz]

When he around just act as if you've pulled a muscle and it hurts real bad, guys at gym usually have this thing called chivalry, if he offers help just take it and try to maintain eye contact on and off. Only on the following day ask fir help, he might even ask you how is your pain now, just keep the convo rolling. All the best

[Agagagagaga]

Oh so she should lie and manipulate him into talking to her? Lol Besides, it’s the gym. Do you really think he’s going to drop what he’s doing while he’s lifting weights and listening to his headphones to run over for some fake damsel in distress? C’mon.

[Shehnaz]

@Agagagagaga this advice is given to her keeping in mind that she is unable to being truthful and go up to him and tell him that she is interested in him. Lol besides he is a human being inside the gym and outside of it, he would certainly be concerned if a girl is in pain, in any case not everyone is familiar with chivalry let alone possess it.

[Agagagagaga]

Women should be encouraged to take care of themselves and not cry out for a man’s help.

[Shehnaz]

@Agagagagaga she will not cry for his help, she will just cry to herself, here we are expecting him to respond, this is neither a lie nor a cry, this is called workaround or saving the situation which is happening all around you. She won't have to pass a lie detector test for initiating a convo, it is same as guys make excuses to get a girl's number. Nobody sue's them for that. As the relationship progresses these things are laughed off, by the way are you saying thst you've never lied? Did you need an encouragement for that? Ever heard about women faking orgasms? That too after years of marriage? Does that lie break the bond? O'cmon. This would just be striking a convo.

[WhitneySnow]

Smile at him. Toss your hair. Maybe bite your lip a little while he’s looking. These are all flirting signals that will make a guy approach you if he likes you. Probably better to do it that way if you’re alone and he’s always with his friends.

[AviatorTom]

When he's working out on a specific machine, go up to him and ask him to help you with your workout on the same machine. If no other machines are available when you do that, ask him if he wouldn't mind letting you try his machine. Make sure you introduce yourself by name.

[serious]

I think you should just say Hi, with your name and then ask things like " If you come to Gym daily or what?"

Etc and then take it from there.

[Emiliamazing]

Introduce yourself, ask him to join you for a smoothie or whatever your post workout drink of choice is. Just that simple. If he can’t figure out attraction at that point, he’s not worth the timr

[Guy13]

Ask him to set your butterfly machine while seated...

[Guy13]

If he does not offer a beer after a good sweat then be thankful you did not ask him out. Stupid is not fun...

[woman_2004]

Say something… or another girl gonna get him. Men like him are rare theses days, boo.

[Anonymous]

"I'm Susie" or whatever it is. He'll take it from there.

[downtowndiner]

Totally not silly. I like it when a girl is herself. Smiles. Glances. Bending over at the right time. That kind of thing.

[Straight2thepoint]

Besides using your body? Just say hi.

[Anonymous]

Stop being a pussy and just say “hello.”

[RuthlessAggression]

Please don't. That's not appropriate.

[Sam_25]

Pm me