What does it mean when only unattractive/ overweight people approach you?

[Anonymous]

If only unattractive / overweight people approach you does that mean you are unattractive yourself?

[Subarugirl]

It means that you come across as a person who might be interested in them, or it could just mean that you have unrealistically high standards. Most people in your age range are going to have a little body fat, that's just biology, and attractiveness is subjective.

[Asker]

Maybe
I do not have unrealistic standards. But I'm not "settling" either
Maybe the average person " my age" but I work very hard at the gym and have a very strict diet.. I'm a bodybuilder
Yes looks are subjective

[Subarugirl]

I'm just saying it's a possibility. Though I'm sure a lot of guys would just tell you to be happy that you are getting approached.

[Asker]

I'm flattered that they do don't get me wrong.. I just would be nice if it was a girl i was attracted too once and awhile.
I'm never mean to them.. I just let them know nicely I'm not interested.

[Subarugirl]

Lol well now you know what it feels like most of the time for women when they get approached, except you don't have to worry about them violent for rejecting them hahah

[Asker]

You make a good point..

[JessicaEarl]

“Attractive people” don’t approach as much because they’re usually approached. Unattractive people approach because they’re used to having to approach

[Asker]

Valid point
Thanks

[CrazyGirl2]

If NO cute guys (or girls) approach you, and only uggos and fatties approach you… the chances are that you are an unattractive person!

[Asker]

That's what I think too..

[CrazyGirl2]

Cool 😎

[Asker]

Doesn't help my ego much though lol🤣🤣

[iam_ss]

Could also be that you look like a nice guy

[Asker]

That I am...

[boggboss]

That women approach u in itself is a good thing

[Asker]

I guess

[Freyke]

You must be unlucky. Unluck.

[Asker]

Don't get me wrong I'm flattered they do approach me but I just wish it was done hot girls for a change.

[Freyke]

I understand, but if it doesn't work out again, it doesn't matter if she was hot or not.

[Asker]

True