I like a boy that goes to the same gym that I do?

[Anonymous]

I like this boy that goes to the same gym as I do but i don’t know how to make him pay me attention. At first I thought that he finds me attractive because we looked at each other a few times but after that he hasn’t done anything like try and talk to me. Now I even feel like he doesn’t want take a glance at me, cus he was avoiding looking the whole time I was doing an exercise right next to him. I really like him, but I don’t wanna be the one that starts the convo and at the same time I don’t wanna look too easy if I stretch or smth near him or do the same exercises as him. Please help 😥

[Pohjolan]

Oh please, guys get to see women's cameltoes and bouncing breasts at the gym at random.

By excercising next to him or stretching while he is around you are not yet signaling that you are interested any more than the next random gal whom happens to be around.

Much less seem easy

Women may ask guys to spot them or even go to sauna together without being interested.

Its not the 50:s anymore you know.

If you are not enough interested in him to show more interest than the gals who are NOT interested in him then its perhaps better that you forget it.

Or you may ask him to spot for you, which is not hitting on him but a possibility to start a conversation.

[Badboy132]

He’s not going to hit on you men have been told that hitting on women in the gym is inappropriate your either going to have to talk to him first or stand next to him and smile at him or every time you see him out yourself right near him where he can see you

[slatyb]

He's not hitting on you at the gym because women are generally not receptive. You'll have to ask him to join you for coffee or whatever after the gym.

[Theabcking]

You're over thinking it. Just talk to him and stop being scared. Woman up. You go girl.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I deliberately ignore women who want me to talk with them. Why should I be the one to speak first?

[Zolly99999]

There is nothing wrong with saying hi... Or asking his name. You should try that at least..

[Anonymous]

Go make small talk with him.

[jahaims]

Just make a move