Does the guy at the gym like me?

Question

Hi, so about a week ago I working out with my trainer. After one of our workouts I got up and noticed this cute guy was wearing a Pittsburgh Steelers shirt (ps. I’m a bears fan) so I started a conversation just saying he’s not allowed to wear that shirt in here. Out of nowhere he started flirting with me. Then said he wouldn’t mind taking it off if I don’t. So I said I wouldn’t mind either. With that I walked off with my trainer. That day he came up to my trainer and wanted to start training with her. Then turned back to me and started talking to me again. I can tell he was a shy guy and a little corny but I thought it was cute. Now he trains with my trainer and always comes in after to me like to see me. But also now I’ve noticed my trainer brings up his name or like in a way shoves me towards him trying to make us talk. And now when he not training with my trainer and it’s just me and my trainer training I catch him looking over and I just start seeing him everywhere now at the gym. I never noticed the guy until now. But he hasn’t asked me out yet? What y’all think.

Updates:

1 mo

I’m getting mixed signals from the same guy. One moment he acts interested then next he doesn’t. Also I’ve texted him first but he hasn’t texted me first. He’s very sweet but it’s like he’s not initiating trying to get to know me. But stares at me at the gym and waves to come talk to me. I don’t know but right now I’m laying off. A guy friend said that he wants me to chase after him. But it’s like we’re grown. It goes both ways. I’m not a mind reader. What y’all think?

Answer 1

AmandaYVR | 104 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Influencer

Oh I think he likes you girl.
Question is, do you like him too? If you do, this is easy peasy. You can make this happen. Ask him out. Or flirt with him and make it completely obvious that he can make a move. But a date, not a hookup, no free blowjobs and all that. An actual date, like with a tablecloth. Or appetizers. Remember those... dates?

Queen_02

1 mo
Yes I do. I just never dealt with a guy who was shy I’ve always dealt with guys who came to me and got my number and not run in a Citicorp like he’s doing. But I will ask for his number next time I see
Queen_02

1 mo
*Circles
AmandaYVR

1 mo
Great! Glad you're proactive. Good to hear.
He's just trying to get into your orbit, and in a way so you don't get freaked out. I think it's cute.
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Queen_02

1 mo
Just wanted to come back and tell you I got his number!
AmandaYVR

1 mo
Yay!! That’s great, girl!
Have fun.
I’m sure he’s super pumped.
AmandaYVR

1 mo
Hmm that's confusing.
Impossible to say what's going on with him.
Maybe he's not really available, but he can't help but want to be around you and he's orchestrating that to some extent, thus the mixed signals?
Also, I think it might matter what you guys are texting. Maybe it's casual, not very specific, or not very enticing?
I do agree though, he has your number, so what's stopping him from initiating more now? He got some clues you're semi-interested.
I don't mind making an overture, myself, but I don't chase. It has to be mutual, or with some action by the guy as well. So I get why you're wondering what's going on now. I would probably back off a bit too. But don't be so cold as to discourage whatever he may want to do. Stop initiating contact, but act warm if and when he approaches again?
Queen_02

1 mo
I haven’t texted him in a few days. We seen eachother today at the gym. He said hi and asked how was doing. I was busy with my trainer so I couldn’t talk. But when I seen him across the room he looked like he down/sad. Like a little off. I don’t but if it’s meant it’ll be. But if not then that ok.

Answer 2

Queen_02

Yes I do. I just never dealt with a guy who was shy I’ve always dealt with guys who came to me and got my number and not run in a Citicorp like he’s doing. But I will ask for his number next time I see

Answer 3

Queen_02

*Circles

Answer 4

AmandaYVR

Great! Glad you're proactive. Good to hear.
He's just trying to get into your orbit, and in a way so you don't get freaked out. I think it's cute.

Answer 5

Queen_02

Just wanted to come back and tell you I got his number!

Answer 6

AmandaYVR

Yay!! That’s great, girl!
Have fun.
I’m sure he’s super pumped.

Answer 7

AmandaYVR

Hmm that's confusing.
Impossible to say what's going on with him.
Maybe he's not really available, but he can't help but want to be around you and he's orchestrating that to some extent, thus the mixed signals?
Also, I think it might matter what you guys are texting. Maybe it's casual, not very specific, or not very enticing?
I do agree though, he has your number, so what's stopping him from initiating more now? He got some clues you're semi-interested.
I don't mind making an overture, myself, but I don't chase. It has to be mutual, or with some action by the guy as well. So I get why you're wondering what's going on now. I would probably back off a bit too. But don't be so cold as to discourage whatever he may want to do. Stop initiating contact, but act warm if and when he approaches again?

Answer 8

Queen_02

I haven’t texted him in a few days. We seen eachother today at the gym. He said hi and asked how was doing. I was busy with my trainer so I couldn’t talk. But when I seen him across the room he looked like he down/sad. Like a little off. I don’t but if it’s meant it’ll be. But if not then that ok.

Answer 9

gotony

Xper 1

I think he was surprised maybe to know that you have something in common with him, maybe he never met someone who likes what he likes so he is trying to get to know you. Maybe you can make a small move, like asking his instagram or his number, and see what he does. That will also help you to know how much he is interested

Queen_02

1 mo
I’m going to ask for him number next time I we him. I m just just nervous. I don’t want to take the L 😩

Answer 10

Queen_02

I’m going to ask for him number next time I we him. I m just just nervous. I don’t want to take the L 😩

Answer 11

robvc1

Xper 2

Well if your story is like you tell it is to be.

Than you can be pretty sure he likes you. He didn't ask you out because he's probably too shy to do it. So maybe you should take the next step and see what happens.

Queen_02

1 mo
I will. I’m just nervous I don’t want to take a L
robvc1

1 mo
Don't worry I think he will say yes 😉 and if he doesn't you can talk to me and tell me how wrong I am 😅

Answer 12

Queen_02

I will. I’m just nervous I don’t want to take a L

Answer 13

robvc1

Don't worry I think he will say yes 😉 and if he doesn't you can talk to me and tell me how wrong I am 😅

Answer 14

Iron_Man | 2K opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

Not necessarily if he would like you he’ll be asking you out

Answer 15

Jean-Marie_Céline | 263 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Influencer

It seems so.

Answer 16

Brownbored

Xper 2

I dunno about the guy.. but just cuz u work out... you have my respect

Queen_02

1 mo
Lol thank you
Brownbored

1 mo
;) i know how hard it was for me to go from flatt ass to bubble butt.. so yeah.. hats off to u girl

Answer 17

Queen_02

Lol thank you

Answer 18

Brownbored

;) i know how hard it was for me to go from flatt ass to bubble butt.. so yeah.. hats off to u girl

Answer 19

Anonymous

why don't you ask him out? or do you adamantly insist that is the guys role?

Queen_02

1 mo
I don’t mind asking for his number. I’m just used to guys always coming to me first. So this is new to me. But I’m going to ask for his #. I just don’t want to take an L.
Opinion Owner

1 mo
i don't blame you at all, its hard to change something you are used to for most of your life

Answer 20

Queen_02

I don’t mind asking for his number. I’m just used to guys always coming to me first. So this is new to me. But I’m going to ask for his #. I just don’t want to take an L.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

i don't blame you at all, its hard to change something you are used to for most of your life

Answer 22

KrakenAttackin | 88 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Yoda

Just suck his cock already.

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