What should I do about the guy I like at the gym?

[Smiley32]

[msc545]

Well, what is it you want to do about him? Do you want to take him home and have sex with him, or do you want to go out to endless dinners with him? Do you even want to go and talk to him, or do you want to just sit around and hope that he'll notice you and come over and start talking to you? What is it you want here?

[Smiley32]

I just want to know him but he seem more nervous than me to say hi

[msc545]

So it's unfair and terrible as it may seem to you. I think you're going to have to do the approaching. If you want anything good to happen here. I know you don't believe women should be have to do this but every once in awhile you guys do. Go say hi to the man.

[NathanDavis]

give him a smiley or two...

he might reciprocate or approach... lol

[Smiley32]

I have lol he is shy

[NathanDavis]

do you like shy guys?

[Smiley32]

In a way yes

[NathanDavis]

well, then maybe you should be the one approaching and say hi

also make sure to explicitly state that you've been wondering about him for a while

and hopefully... he'll respond and reciprocate... but if cries and goes hide or something, at least you'll know that's that, lol

[Smiley32]

Lol right I will best thing to do

[NathanDavis]

yeah, because it doesn't sound like he ever will... lol

[Anonymous]

Nothing if he is anything like most men who hang out in gyms.

[queenofcardio]

Initiate a conversation

[Smiley32]

Yes yes

[Jeff51]

Your not saying anything about this guy. Either talk to him or not.

[Smiley32]

He is shy

[Anonymous]

Continually approach him until you feel comfortable to give him your number.

[slatyb]

Ask him to coffee or lunch or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Why do u like him

[Smiley32]

I say yes

[Anonymous]

Absolutely nothing 😞 lol