Do guys flirt with girls they’re attracted to, or do they flirt with girls they are not attracted to as well?

[Anonymous]

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What if the guy started flirting AFTER asking the girl out? But at first he’s nervous and shy? Why is that?

[Robert159]

According to my wife I flirt with all women and I can see where she gets that but honestly it's the way he would flirt how intense is it how intimate it seems does he pay attention to little details such as the way your eyes glimmer when you smile or the angelic sound of your laughter is what you want to look for

[Asker]

Ooohhh that makes sense! There’s this guy who flirts by complimenting my hair when it looks different hehe

[Robert159]

He's paying attention to small details that change regularly I would say it's very well possible he's interested in you

[Asker]

Awwww❤️

[Asker]

But he was so nervous and shy at first before he asked for my Snapchat

[Slartybartfast]

I don't flirt but back when I did it was only for fun and only with women I wasn't attracted to.

[Asker]

Women you WERENT attracted to?

[Slartybartfast]

Yeah, if I was attracted to her I probably wouldn't talk to her at all.

[Asker]

Oh like that! I’m also like this! I talk so comfortably with guys I’m not attracted to, but guys I like I get so nervous

[Asker]

But like there is a guy who was sooo nervous and shy at first around me. Then he asked for my number and started flirting over phone? What do you think about that?

[Slartybartfast]

Why would you think it's different for guys?

[Slartybartfast]

We are all human, just because men in our society have the burden of initiating relationships doesn't mean we like it !!! For me it was always like going to the dentist, you endure it and accept the pain hoping it will get better.

[Asker]

So you’re saying he was initiating while wanting me to make the move instead?

[Asker]

Because he was like both= both nervous and shy around me, but then he started flirting after he asked for my number so?

[Slartybartfast]

Probably not expecting you to make a move, just give him hints that it's ok for him to do so.

[Slartybartfast]

If he asked for your number he made his move already.

[Asker]

But like if he’s flirting too, according to you, he’s not interested in me?

[QuietVerbena]

They only flirt with girls they’re attracted to, but being attracted to you does NOT necessarily mean they like you like you

[QuietVerbena]

Did she say yes when he asked her out?

[Asker]

Yeah or he added her on Facebook and then asked for further contact details and she said yes

[QuietVerbena]

He’s flirting more cause he feels more confident with her now that she didn’t reject him

[jasco]

Practice makes perfect so I tend to flirt with who ever

[animesenpai]

I wouldn't flirt with someone I wasn't attracted to

[jahaims]

They flirt with people they are trying to fuck

[FilmGuy93]

Flirting in general is fun.

[Danny_dan92]

Only ones they’re attracted too