Is it ok to gently test the waters with a girl youve met a few times & going to a candlelit concert with by gently touching/holding her hand?

[Anonymous]

Yea that’s fine as long as you stop if she looks uncomfortable and you’re gentle

No it’s not ok

[Ευδεμονια]

I honestly think it’s ok if you feel she’ll appreciate it and if she has sent you some signals of good appreciation.
I think after some dates is perfectly fine to do that and giving her a sign of you appreciation will be a signal to her.

[Asker]

Not sure if it’s a date.

[Ευδεμονια]

You told you met her some times, so its not the first time you meet her. Plus, based on previous times you can give an evaluation of her appreciation.

[Guy13]

Why not... she;s probably wandering if think she's ugly with 3 dates and no kiss. Guessing...

[Asker]

Not sure if it’s a date.

[Guy13]

Concerts are dates.

[Asker]

How do you know that? Would you not go with a friend?

[strateguy632]

it is