Is it wrong if multiple guys are giving me attention at same time if they are flirting with me and if I'm liking it but I don't want to be with them?

[Anonymous]

I just like getting attention and liking the attention that I'm getting. Is it wrong to like the attention from them?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I don't think that's wrong.

They're flirting with you, why not having fun flirting back?

Just be careful. Most men will assume if you flirt with them - even just as a friendly thing - that you are headover heels in love and you want to fuck them like an animal. So be careful. Make sure you only reciprocate in public spaces and you know where your exits and security cameras are if you're going to flirt back.

Also, steel yourself for getting a lot of sexual and disgusting comments, looks, and assumptions. Most men will, again, think if you speak to them that you want to fuck them.

You'll need to practice rejecting them, and being clear you're just flirting and not interested in dating them.

There is NOTHING wrong flirting with someone who is flirting with you (unless you notice they're with someone else, in which case, call attention to their partner and ask if the partner is ok if you flirt back), and having no intention of doing more.

But you also need to realize most men can't tell the difference between reciprocal and playful flirting, and an undying declaration of love.

Most men, if you flirt back, will absolutely think you're going to spread your legs for them. And some may even get violent on rejection.

So just, have fun, but be careful.

[Asker]

It's so unbelievable that guys think in this way. I am not interested in flirting back with them either. I just like the way they are giving me attention

[Smoke-n-Growls]

There's nothing wrong with that. They're the ones choosing to give you attention.

Compliments are nice to hear.

[Midnight_Kiss]

Leading them on just because it make you feel good makes you a c*ck tease and will do nothing but gain you a reputation.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you let them know that they are not attractive to you it’s fine. Did you tell them they can’t have a chance of getting you?

[Asker]

No, I didn't tell. I may tell if they open up with me directly

[BarryLiverstone]

Well if you are flirting back and didn’t tell then that’s leading then on. If you let them know then it’s harmless. Do you want to hurt them?

[Asker]

No, I'm not flirting back with them either. They are doing it as one sided. I don't want to hurt them either but I am just liking the attention from them as it is making me feel someone actually cares about me. Is it wrong?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes because it’s one sided. Really they will get bored if you never flirt back and they will leave.

It’s also not a healthy way of feeling like someone cares

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you have people who give yon attention that you wanna flirt back with?

[Asker]

Yes, I want to give back attention to someone back

[BarryLiverstone]

Then it’s better to spend less time with these guys and more time finding that person right?

[Asker]

Yeah

[spartan55]

It's wrong if you are leading them on, which you likely are.

[Anonymous]

Almost everyone enjoys that type of attention if they can get it. It’s only wrong if you’re leading them on and pretending you wanna eventually date them. If not I don’t see the harm.

[Riley1]

Nope. Enjoy yourself babe! It's not a bad thing & if it turns you on do it!

[Anonymous]

Nope that’s totally fine unless you’re dating someone or one of them.

[Asker]

No, I'm not dating any of them

[Opinion Owner]

Then have all the fun you want.😊

[chicosuave]

Yes. you and the rest of women.

[Anonymous]

Yea it’s wrong,