What are the signs that a ghoster will comeback?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

As a woman - I find if I’m predictable and nice and not forceful or demanding, guys always come back if they are still single after 2-3 years. I did not date them but I asked them - got rejected. Later they were single and wanted to date me and I said no for my own reasons. I also had guys come back in months or weeks.

[Asker]

Oh well, in this case I do hope that the person will comeback in a few weeks of no contact. haha

If the person does come back, I'll show that I'm not as interested as before (and make them work for me).

[Marshymallow]

They follow you again. Watch your stories and like your posts. Or ask mutual friends about you. They might also not show any signs and just randomly show up lol

[Asker]

The ghoster still follows me (and she is aware that I don't post anything on it). Last time I sent her a message, she read it in 8 minutes (but left me on read). So I guess that there's a pretty good chance that the ghoster will text me again in the future.

[Anonymous]

tough to say sometimes they just randomly re appear , it depends too have far they took the ghosting , like did they move away? or still nearby and just avoiding you

[Asker]

Well the girl still follows me on our social media accounts. And it took her 8 mins to read the last message I've sent her (about a week ago). So if she really did hate me, she would have probably taken longer to read it.

I have a gut feeling that she will reappear some day. Especially since we used to be good online friends and also because she said, last week, that she wanted to keep in touch on our social medias. I don't know why she's ghosting me all of a sudden, but I do think that she'll reappear, eventually. Might be in a few weeks or in a few months. Or whenever she'll feel bored.

[In_Trance]

You fail to block them
You keep them on social media
You accept and respond to text messages
You wonder if they'll come back

[Kkoalalita]

You never know until they do

[Asker]

There probably have signs somewhere... sometimes. But thanks for the fast reply lol

[Asker]

**There probably are