Well if you can get another lay out of her, why not?
I used to think the same thing about getting another lay out of it. But what’s way more satisfying is to have the self respect to tell her to pound sand. If you are man enough to do it then you will find it is seriously way more satisfying than any lay (yes some things in life are better than sex). I had a so called “gal pal” ghost me two years ago. I didn’t want to date her but I thought she was one of the few women I could trust for deep advice when I was going through a very difficult time in my life. After one deep conversation she blocked me on all social media and I didn’t hear from her in 2 years. Then during lockdown she tried to message me via LinkedIn (only platform she didn’t block me on). I was semi amicable at first. I wanted to see what she was going to say. Did she apologize? Nope. Not a hint of remorse. She was being her typical piece of sh*t fake self. It was just pathetic postering just massage her ego. I sent her a nasty message telling her to piss off and how I was completely disgusted with her. Then I blocked her. Good riddens. I don’t need that shit in my life. The only way these women will learn (and some men too) is if you hold up a mirror to their face. If you take them back (even for an easy lay) you are just enabling her shitty behavior. Guys are enabling more and more women are doing this crap nowadays because we are so god damn weak when we think with our d*cks. Men need to grow some balls and handle it like Nicholas Cage does https://youtu.be/CJKr-W7UJX0
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I hope thats true, she ghost me but i knew i can treat her better do you think she will one day text me. or do i have to do the first move again?
Eh, if she ghosted you then let her come back on her own.
But i can't she's constantly on my mind i keep craying because i miss (her)
Then it sounds like you have some soul searching and healing to do, bud. You want to go back to her, but why? You’re missing her why? What is she bringing to the table that you can’t get on your own? These are the questions you need to ask yourself and figure out so you can begin healing and wanting more for yourself than crawling back to the woman who ghosted you.
i dont want her to bring anything to the table anymore, if i just can have her for a second i would be happy :D
That's why. They were expecting you to pan after them and when you didn't, they felt let down. So they were trying to get you interested so they could let *you* down. Good for you man. Stay the course.