Why do Ghosters ghost, come back, then repeat the same pattern?

[Anonymous]

Besides ego boost, loneliness and horniness. Why do men even reach out after ghosting several weeks or months!

[Anonymous]

Well for one you allow it by responding to the idiot. You’re not that important to him if he’s going weeks or months w out talking to you. Chances are he has some other girl who’s he’s main girl or a girl he’s currently trying to work on that he finds more attractive then you. Sonic things don’t work out w that girl he will come back to you. Even if they do work out again if you’re allowing him to come back he’s going to take advantage of it. So stop letting these men treat you like this, move on. If he knows he has you wrapped around his finger it’s easy to do things like that cause you’ll jump in a heartbeat for him.

[Finchie40]

Because you are allowing them to , block their asses and move on , People that Ghost people have serious mental issues , so ignore them as much as possible

[Asker]

Thanks

[Babebytheshore85]

They never liked you. They user you put of boredom until the one they want comes along. Once the person they want comes along they drop you. Now that him and this person maybe having challenges or the person might be unavailable he's using you as a distraction until they're available. It's not hard to comprehend use your brain

[Babebytheshore85]

You're 38 get your shit together

[Babebytheshore85]

And you allow yourself to be used

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because you’re easy entertainment and they don’t see you as a real person so there’s no consequences to them

[ProbablyClueless]

Most of that is just people being lost in their own little worlds. I don't think it's intentional.

They couldn't tell you what they want for breakfast, so they just waste a bunch of your time while they figure whatever nonsense out that they need to figure out.

[Nikki1989]

There is no such thing as ghosting, just very flaky people.

[Shiprex]

They may have had second thoughts, been on operational tours or done work on themselves to better themselves and now get that they "can handle" that empowerment of modern women.

[Anastasia86]

Cause they are con artists. We let them back. Plus some deal with it growing up.

[AnonAndrew]

They didn't want you then. Now they want you. As long as you humor them, they'll keep it up if they want you again.

[EmmaMary]

Obviously he knew where he could get an easy leg-over, as and when he wanted it... Simples!

[teamvic]

You can't say besides the reasons and then ask for an answer

I guess cause they know they can

[WonderingManII]

Personally I have never figured out why people ghost on decent people. So I can't answer why they do it over and over again.

[Anonymous]

there’s always a fall back plan B girl, soon as someone better comes along go with that, when that fails, back to plan b girl. Depending on how long it takes varies, if you hear from him off and on a lot he’s having bad luck.

[Anonymous]

I guess you should call GhostBusters :P

[Jamie05rhs]

Show me the conversation and maybe I can interpret it for you.

[Asker]

He's done this 4 X- I don't want to date him, so I let it go. I am upset now, last week he texted me back after 3.5 weeks from ghosting again, he asked if I still needed help moving. I said yes, we had a text conversation back n forth, he mentioned how hot it was when we hooked up back in Feb... he agreed to help me move in a few weeks..
Then fast fwd a week later, I sat whats up? No response. I sent double text, which i usually never do and say right your back to ghosting again! Still no answer..
It's like why did he even reach out in the 1st place!!! He never came over to hook up or anything. He did tell me the girl he briefly dates didn't work out!

[Jamie05rhs]

So it sounds like he's just using you for sex. He doesn't actually care about you as a person.

[Asker]

Probably- he never came over when he texted after ghosting this last time.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, there you go.

[Jove79]

Because he’s too busy with his main chick or family.

[Smegskull]

I don't ghost the gym. I just forget to go because it isn't all that important to me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause you give them the opportunity

[itsannalee]

To check if you stupid enough to trust him again

[Luopio27]

No ghoster has ever returned to visit in my life!

[TracyWants]

Because it's east for them

[Anonymous]

Because they think you’ll forgive them

[Godihateyou]

Because sluts let dudes hit and run.

[Babebytheshore85]

🤣🤣🤣

[Cameila99]

They think they have a magical tongue.

[yotaman99]

I get ghosted by women a lot myself

[spartan55]

Free 🥧 pie.

[Credentialmayhem]

It’s because they want something

[In_Trance]

Because you let them

[Anonymous]

what is considered a ghoster?

[msc545]

Why not?