Flirting in itself isn't neccessarily a bad thing; the problem starts when you do it too much.
Why?
Because your sending out the signal that your interested in multiple people, and that doesn't sit well with anyone really.
What I mean is - say there's this really beautiful girl your into; she flirts with you constantly, and your into her (crushing on her,) then, she turns around and starts flirting with your best friend, a male classmate, one of her guy friends - hell a teacher; your going to be wondering if this chick is really genuine or not.
And with a guy, if your constantly flirting around with different girls, and you come off not being very genuine, the next idea is that your probably a player.
My best friend is really pretty, and quite flirtacious by nature; she hated going to school because all the girls started calling her a slut (she's a virgin btw,) because she was always dominating the attention of the guys - due to her rapid flirting.
So yea, you can send the wrong message flirting with so many women. Just find one you really like, and dedicate your charms to her ^^
Yes because it will be hard for a girl you really like a lot to tell if you're just flirting with her like you do with everyone else or if she's different. Flirting is fun, but sometimes it can make it hard to tell when that person is being sincere and when they're just carelessly flirting because they think it's fun. Plus there are a lot of situations where flirting is just plain inappropriate. For example, what if there's a really cute girl with a great personality who wants to get to know you and she could have been so correct for you, but you flirted endlessly with her friend and made her feel like crap so now she won't even put herself out there for you.
So yeah, flirting can be fun...but so can smoking weed and getting drunk right before you get in a car accident and take someone's life or lose your limbs. My point being just because something is fun doesn't mean it's always smart to do it.
Flirting is having fun. So do what you want to do, to enjoy your life. :D
A true player's reputation is based on the sex he has with girls, not the flirting he does with them. Whoever thinks you're a player is a dumb ass if all you do is flirt, if anyone has a problem tell em to suck it
its only bad if you are trying to avoid being labeled a player isn't inevitable if you flirt to much or if you were a girl it would be a slut label
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no it's not bad. it's just a fun way to express yourself
it's not bad. you're young
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