I started conversation with my crush twice if I initiate a 3rd time I’ll seem desperate if I don’t he probably won’t talk to me. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

The first time I talked to him I asked him about school work for class. And then the second day I talked to him twice I complimented him on his soccer game and later in class asked him about the work and his soccer stuff again. He’s nice but, I don’t think he likes me or knows me well enough to start talking to me without me starting conversation. The problem is my only other excuse to talk to him would have to be on Monday making it 3 days in a row I tried to talk to him making me seem desperate. If I decide to not say anything my excuse won’t work after that and he probably won’t start conversation either. What do I do?

[Stevefiveo]

If he is your crush, you are going to have to talk to him again and up your game. You are going to have to make an excuse to invite him over your house. Like hey I need help with this homework or I really like soccer and I want to learn. Can you come over and teach me. If he says yes, then you got him. All you have to do is tell him how you feel and kiss him to close the deal. Good luck. Don't worry about looking desperate. I was horrible at understanding hints from girls and I'm still pretty bad unless it is something obvious like that.

[Pohjolan]

Desperate? Talking or small talk is basic socialising.

You are way overthinking this. Guys are not keeping some Excel lists about which gals talked to them how many times on which day.

If you ask him to go on a date with you for a third time after he refused you twice then you are desperate.