She says I m not interested and we are just good collegues. She is very nice with me in office and allows me to touch her with a little bit of fear, which is also due to fear of expose, unlike other collegues. She says don't try to be good with me, don't waste your time. She mimics me, she tease me, laughs very excitedly when someone break joke on me. make an eye contact with me, but when she reaches home she become totally a different person, stops me from flirting and behave rudely. Is she playing with me?. Should I continue or not?
No idea, the only way to tell her real intentions is by withdrawing your attention. It’s also they only way you might have a possibility of getting her.
Attention is the currency in girl world. She wants attention, and I assume that you want sex. She’s getting the attention, you’re not getting laid.
By taking away your attention she either stops trying for your attention, which means that you’re no longer wondering if you have a chance and can move on, or she realises that she really wants your attention and tries harder to get it.
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How do you touch her in the office? Is it just a handshake or are you touching her inappropriately?
You have to be very cautious about "touching" female co-workers as this can quickly be seen and perceived as sexual harassment. Never touch a co-worker in any other way than to shake hands because she seems to be uncomfortable when you touch her. You state "... little bit of fear". This does not sound good and I would urge you to refrain from touching her at all.
If she says that she sees you only as a colleague then take it that way and don't insist. She behaves differently when she is not in her work environment and that is indicative that she tries to be friendly when working colleagues are around in order not to create a bad working climate.
I suggest you stop teasing and touching her and remain strictly on a co-worker status.
It sounds like she just wants games to me.
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