Why would a girl flip flop her emotions?

[NotSoBad]

One second I love you the next second... she thinks I should hook up with other people...

Has anyone ever been this flip flop type of person?

[jtrechter1984]

Know how you feel man. One minute my ex is all lovey dovey then the next minute she breaks up w/me. Wish there was a different way. I can't really offer you any answers except that sometimes people think they are doing you a favor by "letting you go". Sometimes its for the best but most often its for the worst. They can't see how much you love them and that is a problem. Good luck though on solving this one. If you do let me know what you did or she did. I could really use the same help on my problem.

[Hercules]

Bipolar disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder, both more commonly found in women, are reasons. Other than that, people just get scared, they say one thing but fear they made a mistake, so they retract it. It's normal to an extent.

Everyone flip flops at one time or another I think.

[i-c-ded-ppl]

I think it's got to do with insecurity. When a girl feels safe with a guy, she shouldn't flip like that, but I myself have been in the situation where you go a bit crazy, because something in the relationship was bothering me. The problem is, sometimes girls won't realize it until it's too late, I myself didn't even realize I was uncomfortable with the guy until it was over.

[hotmama]

Is this that crazy alcoholic girl?

Move on!!!!

Seriously - you've gotta get away from her or she will drive you insane.

[NotSoBad]

Well we took a month break and when she found out I was dating other people (which was her advice) she all of a sudden wanted to get back with me.

[hotmama]

Hey - rereading my answer, it sounded pretty mean. I don't mean to disrespect you or her, I was just upset because it brings bad some bad memories. My ex-husband was a binge-drinker, and it caused me so much heartache, as well as problems with our kids. He was never violent and never saw it as a problem, but he would always choose drinking over us. I know you care about her and want to help her, but you can't. I'm so sorry - you sound like a good guy - please let her go.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Maybe she is insecure and scared that you'll leave her so she's pushing you away

[NotSoBad]

I thought this at first and I have done everything I can to show her that I care. I have to stop lying to myself.

[misslasvegas]

She sound like she is bipolar... and should seek medical help because of her chemical imbalance in the brain...

[NotSoBad]

This is another thing I have thought of. I have realized that I have been quite consistent throughout the relationship and she has not.

[misslasvegas]

Have you confronted her about her problem? If you haven't its probably not best because most people would get mad if you told them.

[GeorgieS2-]

doesnt want to seem to easy.