Why is this Coworker suddenly flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

A married Coworker who has known me for 6 months has recently started flirting with me out of nowhere. Why could that be and did He Not find me pretty in the beginning?

[Guy13]

Because he needs validation from another woman that his sexuality is still “good”.

[Asker]

Yes but He could have flirted with me in the very beginning. Why did He Start only Now?

[Guy13]

He’s had time to assess whether your psyche and nature are stable and tough enough. He’s been watching, testing, and studying you. How old is he and you please?

[Asker]

Tough enough for flirting? I don‘t Unterstand.

I‘m 23, He is 56

[Guy13]

Tough enough to handle sexual innuendo interrogation. I assume his children are older than you…I have married Mentors like this.

[Asker]

So He does Not find me attractive and only Wants to Boost his ego?

And yes, His son is 30

[Guy13]

It is hard to say but given he’s married…stay away. Not on revenge of the wife but son and their attorneys. And TODAY with spouse killing spouse and shootings etc…. FYI, the fact that he told you don is 30 and you still let him tease you encourages him that you would be okay with an arrangement.
Stay away from him and start viewing him as the predator that he is ⁉️

[Jess_D]

He’s married and thirty three years older than you? Girl, run!