Is it love at first sight for both of us?

[Anonymous]

i work at this factory. i saw this guy come in one day and my heart instantly dropped. i never felt anything like it before. ever since then i see him starring at me, he’s flirted with me off and on, taking about s*x and everything. i feel such a strong weird connection to him 24/7. do you think he gets the same feeling?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. There is no such thing as love at first sight. There is lust at first sight. How can you LOVE someone when you don't know ANYTHING about them? What is it that you love about them? Why do you love them? You are old enough to know the differene between lust and love.

2. None of us know what he thinking or feeling.

[MiamiMadness]

Sounds like Romeo and Juliet all over again

[Asker]

i’m being serious. it’s the weirdest thing ever. it’s such a strong connection.

[MiamiMadness]

Then stop wasting time on here and talk to him! You’re life is going to pass you by and you’ll be left wondering ”What If…?” Stop this madness and seize your life by the balls Señorita

[Asker]

the issue is tho is he flirts with me one minute and talks about sending him pics and doing stuff with him and the next day he says “i was just playin” then the next day he texts me the same stuff wanting the same thing and flirting again. he’s hot and cold. each day. what’s that mean?

[MiamiMadness]

It sounds like he’s probably not serious about a relationship and wants to play “Hide the Mouse”. Maybe he’s not the right one?

[Asker]

he’s made it clear about not wanting a relationship. he’s also shy. it took me a long time to even get him to talk to me. i do notice staring, he’s finally started texting me but backs out, he flirts in person but backs out too. he knows i don’t want a relationship too. it’s fun in games and he knows that. that’s why i’m so confused on his behavior. literally totally into it one day and doesn’t even know me the next. he’s also a gemini