What does it mean when a guy claims he's growing on me?

[Anonymous]

When a guy asks you to check out bands/shows/movies he likes what does this mean?



It's a guy I met in school who mesages me every month or so and talks to me about the following above ^^^. When I go to talk about them with him, he replied with

"Im growing on you :)))) ) Is this a weird way of flirting or what?

[lifesgreat21]

first, the answer to your question is no. people have use that expression sometimes. And second, if he messages you only every month or so than its nothing serious probably just flirting with you so he can get it, it all depends on what else he said or his actions after. ?

[Asker]

haha well I doubt he's trying to get it. I'm 4 years older than him anyways. He's just a guy who would talk to me everyday in school until I graduated but he still tries to make an effort to talk to me since I left. He's not the "get it and go guy" he's not flirty, we just apparently get along good ahah

[lifesgreat21]

lol. that's a little humourous. sounds like he might be a recent foreigner. but don't be quick to judge 4 years is nothing to a guy sometimes...it could be just a sign he might be falling for you. who knows. but I guess your probably right since yall do get along good then maybe he just means you've become a good friend of his...

[mdc13]

Is this a serious question?

[Asker]

sigh apparently. I so very tired of rude answers. such a waste of space.

[mdc13]

It means he likes you, child. This is a universal way of saying 'I'm falling for you'. Kinda confuses me how you don't know that.