Are you a big flirt? How do you pull a male/female?

[Msputiton]

[nolabels]

I like to flirt to an extent.

How to pull a male/female? I think (scratch that), I know that there are certain websites for that sort of thing.

Oh, you must mean how to attract a male or female. Every situation is different and thus requires on-the-spot, nanosecond decision making and I-can-do-this confidence.

[Msputiton]

No i said how do YOU pull someone.

[nolabels]

Attempts at humor, compliments, pointing out commonalities between myself and my flirt partner, standing tall with my shoulders back and head up to advertise my masculinity, then leaning in towards my intended when she says or does something that entices me can have the effect of eliciting further flirting on her part,
Observation and analysis of the reactions of my flirting partner and constant modification of my techniques as I deem to be necessary to hopefully be increasingly successful are constantly taking place.

The things I look for from a woman that indicate her interest? - #1 is definitely hair-twirling; eye-batting that is 100% natural, never forced. Forced eye-batting will have me running for the hills. Extended eye contact indicates interest to me, her body turned towards me, and some of the same things I mentioned as a man, humor, commonalities. The list goes on and on.

I've been married for 28 years. I'm way out of practice when to it comes to flirting other than to just make someone's day a bit brighter.
It's easier for an old guy like me to mildly flirt. I'm no longer in the 'game', so to speak.

Practice makes it easier. If you're looking to hone your own flirting skills, try it out in situations that don't really matter to you and won't matter at all once it's concluded. Anyone who catches your interest in even the smallest ways are candidates to begin to mildly flirt with to build confidence. Like I said before, mild flirting can brighten anyone's day, even if there is no expectation of anything more than a few moments of connection.

Trying to start out flirting with someone you're possibly seriously intent on attracting to you might be terrifying and possibly counterproductive. On the other hand, your intended may find inexperienced flirting to be adorable. You never know.
I was terrified of flirting as a young man. Intentional practice made it a lot easier when my intent was more serious.

Nature finds a way.

You got this.

[Summeroflove]

No. I have to be into someone before I flirt. If I think someone’s cute. I might flirt subconsciously though.

But. More often then not. If I don’t know someone or aren’t into them. I likely won’t flirt.

I sometimes might feel attraction to a stranger. But I can see good looking people all the time and think a woman’s absolutely beautiful. But not have much attraction. Especially if she’s with someone.

[Msputiton]

Gotcha

[Summeroflove]

Flirting is one of those things that. I might flirt to see if someone likes me before making a move on someone.

But. The problem is. Sometimes it can be hard to tell if someone isn’t catching on or if they aren’t interested. So you don’t want to push it. But you also want to be more clear you’re interested.

Most of the time. I might smile or innocently touch (sometimes I don’t touch people too much) and if they seem to be uncomfortable I won’t do it again.

Things like that. It’s better to be direct though if you want someone. That way you don’t have to play games and wonder

[dustybiker]

I tease friends. I’m serious about love. Growing up with all boys as friends did something to me.

[Msputiton]

Yeah. I think all the dudes i hung out with because of basketball formed me a lot to who i am

[dustybiker]

I like the edge that gives though.

[Msputiton]

Yeah me too🥰

[Agape93]

Only with those I'm obviously teasing or I have interest in

[Msputiton]

🤣🤣🤣

[Agape93]

Lol you know I mean it too xD

[sirderpsalot123]

Follow her around while screaming uncontrollably until they give me their number. You'd be surprised at how many women have the same 3-digit phone number.

[Msputiton]

Is it 911?🤣

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't give out someone's number without their permission. What kind of person do you think I am?😒

[Msputiton]

The kinda a gjuy who screams at random women🤣

[sirderpsalot123]

Well, yeah... I don't want to come off too strong in the beginning. I slowly work my charm.

[Msputiton]

I'm dead💀

[Blackcupcake]

I just died 3 times reading this🤣

[WonderBell99]

why on earth would you receive a downvote?😭

this was simply hilarious lol

[sirderpsalot123]

@WonderBell99 @Blackcupcake At least you guys have a sense of humor, Iol.

[Blackcupcake]

@sirderpsalot123 thanks but I knew that😎😛

[Msputiton]

@WonderBell99 he has a stalker who downvotes everything.
She mad he ain't screamed at her🤣

[sirderpsalot123]

@Msputiton It's been a while though. It could be someone else, lol...

[Msputiton]

Oh. I get them too.
The stuck up. Mad at us for having sense of humor and enjoying life

[WonderBell99]

@sirderpsalot123 damn, stalker?😂 any idea who it might be?

[WonderBell99]

@Msputiton the stalker is jealous lmfao!! or just a person with no humor 😭

[sirderpsalot123]

@WonderBell99 I just know it's a pink account. And that sucks because that means I can't blame @Bigpauly for it.

[WonderBell99]

@sirderpsalot123 are you a new addition to the bully squad? 😒

[sirderpsalot123]

@WonderBell99 No, I'm nice to everyone...

[sirderpsalot123]

Just ask @Msputiton

[WonderBell99]

@sirderpsalot123 I was just goofing around, lol

[Msputiton]

He's very mean to me.
This is like the first time he has actually been nice.
I think he probably ready to explode

[WonderBell99]

@Msputiton @sirderpsalot123 *gasps* you're mean to my daughter? I knew you were a bully! 🙄

(this is in reference to @blackcupcake and @PrettyPriya being bullies lmfao)

[Msputiton]

@WonderBell99 he is😭
My twin is not a bully she is too nice to bully anyone😭

[sirderpsalot123]

@Msputiton untrue.

[Blackcupcake]

@msputiton thank you twin!!!😭❤️

@wonderbell99 you’re the one that bullied your teammate…

@sirderpsalot123 are you calling me a bully😒

[sirderpsalot123]

@Blackcupcake No! I would never call you that!

[Blackcupcake]

@sirderpsalot123 *big smile*😁❤️

[Msputiton]

@Blackcupcake no it wasn't him. It was wonderbell. And i will always defend you

[Blackcupcake]

@msputiton awww my twinie❤️😭😍

[Msputiton]

@Blackcupcake *big hugs*😭🥰😍

[Blackcupcake]

@msputiton *BIG BIGS*

[Msputiton]

@Blackcupcake you been drinkin?🤔

[Blackcupcake]

@msputiton I added a shot to my chai

[Msputiton]

@Blackcupcake 🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

no not at all but im a freshman and I somehow pulled a sophomore who is supposed to be a junior no she is not dumb a lot of people got held back because they didn't do their work when covid started when they were in virtual. but I pulled her by being quiet and kind of acting like I didn't want her to the point she thought I hated her best friend told her I wanted her and she didn't believe her but she sat next to me every day until I just looked her in the eyes and said I want you so now she is my girlfriend

[TallAnon]

I have been known to be a bit of a flirt here and there..
How do I pull? Try to meet up in person asap. I'm a lot more attractive in person, so if she wants to meet up, there's a big chance she'll agree to 99% of what I want.

[Msputiton]

🤣🤣🤣

[Jaximus-Lion]

I never do. All i do and always did is having a good time, just talk, no flirt, just having a conversation. It works and i keep doing it even though i am taken since 2009 but i always mention that i am taken and we just keep talk

[NathanDavis]

nope... not at all

never been a flirt, so I wouldn't even know how to start it... lol

[PrettyPriya]

I pull cupcakes and tacos. Sorted.

[NathanDavis]

*brings the cheesecake*

[PrettyPriya]

Tf? I am currently fighting trolls.

[Msputiton]

Seriously you don't?

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya i pull tacos too.

[NathanDavis]

@msputiton nope... I never flirt, being my casual self usually works well enough, lol

@PrettyPriya everything is more enjoyable with a good, great cheesecake... lmao

[PrettyPriya]

Goodness me. Want to correct yourself? 🤨

[NathanDavis]

@PrettyPriya less annoying... lmfao

[PrettyPriya]

I’ll post my DMs. Don’t tempt me.

[PrettyPriya]

Off to tame my hair situation. You all take care and I will check in!

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya trolls?

[NathanDavis]

@PrettyPriya lmfao...

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya good luck🥴

[DannyUk2017]

I am a very big flirt... if i catch her in my "imagination, day dreaming, forbidden thoughts", either i make her her panties wet, or i'll make her shiver for... Arousal, Desire...😈😈

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t flirt with people… and I mean it when I say that lol

[Msputiton]

I noticed twin

[PrettyPriya]

Hey @blackcupcake 😍😍🥵

[Blackcupcake]

@PrettyPriya hiya🥵🔥

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya oh no.

[Blackcupcake]

lmfao…

[Msputiton]

I think y'all goal is to traumatize me for life

[Blackcupcake]

why!!!

[Msputiton]

Nevermind😪

[PrettyPriya]

😋🥵🔥❤️

[Blackcupcake]

💦🌊

[Msputiton]

🤣🤣🤣

[Fuentes]

Is you fucking me or not my fav line for a chick

[Msputiton]

Oh no🤣

[20yearsolder]

I think I am. I don't play games. I'm genuine and honest. Be yourself

[JPresidente]

Very flirty. Humor works for me 100% of the time. Women love to laugh and they love a guy that can make them laugh.

[humanearth]

Sometimes I can be

I just talk and do what I do best and that's.

Showing off

[Wise4myage]

I'm pretty good at it, but not all the time.

[stratford]

I find it really hard to know how flirty / cheeky to be, or whether a girl is even interested in me that way.

Sometimes I think back and realize I could have taken things much further.

[Anonymous]

I was. I live in a very conservative place where sex before marriage is considered to be bad. Still I've managed to get nudes from 4 strange girls.

[melanieeeB]

I used to be

[Msputiton]

👀👀

[melanieeeB]

Oh and I pulled the guys just by being me, I don't know honestly know, I smile a lot, I joke around a lot and if I really flirt I also do little touches and all
I guess I'm a natural flirt and people tell me that I'm flirting but I never realized it myself haha
And I said used, cause I'm actively not trying to flirt or date since a long time now

[ViceGAG]

I bet your eyes are too sparky that gives guys the impression that you’re flirting.

[Msputiton]

@melanieeeB i can relate.

[melanieeeB]

@Msputiton yeah I would assume that you're also very outgoing person... am i right?

[Msputiton]

Yeah. I talk to just about everyone

[melanieeeB]

Haha that's cool!

[Msputiton]

Depends who ask.
Some my friends say it be nice if we could just go out without you getting to a random convo wit a random person

[ViceGAG]

Get s room you two, I hate it when I troll a comment then I have to get all of its notifications.

How about you use pm!

[Msputiton]

@ViceGAG oh you never wanna be on any my opinions or any of my friends. We will easily drop 100 comments

[ViceGAG]

Please, stop.
It would be my last time.

[TrillXHippy]

Couldn’t pull a female if it was the last thing that I had to do

[Amur8711]

On here I am a flirt, in person I am not witty enough to be a flirt.

[Beerluvr]

I wouldn’t say big. But I like to lightly flirt lol

[Charliefretz329]

I don’t have to flirt my confidence and my sexy body do all the work for me

[exitseven]

No, I am really shy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't flirt unless flirted with.

[Havthrills]

I am a flirt. Just by nature. Lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes I am when I'm not in a relationship

[Anonymous]

I'm ma flirt. It's for entertainment purposes.

[Zolly99999]

Yes I am 😉

[Msputiton]

Bet🤣

[Zolly99999]

😁😁😁

[eagle1951]

i've heard i am but i don't think i am

[Anonymous]

yes i am huge flirt lol

[michael00007]

Lets goo then

[Iron_Man]

Nope….

[Chthou95]

No i hate flirting