Are you as flirtatious in real life as you are here and other social media?

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CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Yes. My online flirting is more light-hearted and funny so it's not very serious and never meant to be welcome for more, but my offline flirting is more intimate and only when I am interested in taking things further. Like online it's just making jokes and sending emojis, we laugh about it and we're over with it but in real life I'm touching, speaking in a higher/lower voice, giving affirmations and praises etc, and um if things go well and we get bolder with each other things go further haha ❤️ so naturally I'm more selective when flirting offline.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I flirt far more in real life than I do on here.

ZXCwWRQWz · Accepted Answer

I'm the precise opposite. I don't have any desire to stay cool or flirt online. I tend to think of a purely online reputation as a "virtual/fake" one like a video game, and the same for online friendships (with a few exceptions).

I use the online to spill my guts and just say unfiltered stuff that pops into my head with a freewriting approach that I'd never say in real life even at a bar full of drunk people. I'm tactful and flirty and careful with my words in person; online, I'm blunt and unfiltered and just type the first thing I think.

DenizLikesTennis · Accepted Answer

Yes, absolutely☺️☺️

But the digital era has made it all different and alienated a conversation in social situations. I like it to spark up a conversatiom at a café and put my phone aside. If you want my honest opinion, I am not the type of guy to do online dating but the society and everything is pushing me towards it.

So by any means, We have to either adapt us or not. The choices we make are all in our hands.

Rosexøxø · Answer

Nope. I tested all my “dirty talk” online.

Nowadays, I don’t flirt online… and I don’t flirt in person 🤣.

I hardly hold eye-contact with guys, anyways, because out in public, if it’s not a hobby environment, there’s just no time for waves and winks, and exchanging phone numbers.

Not for me, anyway. 👐

*cue the jog walker* 🏃‍♀️

melanieeeB · Answer

I don't flirt on here at all. So no, I'm more flirty in real life

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don’t flirt online but I might have meaningful conversations online. I only flirt in real life cause you can see body language and facial cues and observe changes in voice and physical distance.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

More so in real life, cause I don't have to think about it, it happens naturally.

AviatorTom · Answer

IRL, I'm actually quite shy. I do occasionally flirt with women, but I make sure they know it's only flirting.

Bethany22 · Answer

Probably not in person, no.

Anonymous · Answer

Online world is different from real world/ that why it’s called a “world” so different
I get shocked how people sometimes assume things from you how you are etc and label you according to what they read. I’m like 😳
To assume something you have to know how that person voice sounds their way of speaking and saying it. It’s so important.
How can you flirt online I don’t get
Babyy I miss youuu
I’m curious how did you Read it like? You don’t know how my voice sounds that covers almost 9 out 10 of sensual vibes lol

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know how to flirt. I give a compliment but flirting... 😶 Like how do you even flirt correctly or appropriately or whatever the word is lol.

I'm more talkative through text because I'm shy. If I do talk to someone face to face I try to reciprocate and be outgoing and friendly even though it's probably obvious that I'm shy.

But flirting?😵😳 I don't even know how to. I don't really compliment guys though just cause I don't want them thinking I'm hitting on them if I'm not interested. One friendly compliment I use often though for guys is complimenting their achievements.

I usually say something like, "That's impressive." or "That's inspiring." They don't really seem to acknowledge it or say thank you. Their expression is like a blank slate. If I were audacious enough to make a compliment to a man I'm interested in, then I would probably compliment his facial hair because I just love all kinds of facial hair styles. 😄

crossdressingrihno · Answer

I don’t flirt anymore. I’ve had more relationships than I can remember. I’ve had more relationships than years alive. I quit being in relationships at around the age of 18 because I got really upset at myself how many relationships I’ve been in. I am both proud of and ashamed of that fact.

So in other words I’m not that flirtatious anymore despite that originally being a very prime personality trait of mine it was also a skill I was very good at.

WonderBell99 · Answer

I’m only flirty with my friends LMFAO. I get nervous around guys and run the other way 😂

Cuttie_Country_Girl · Answer

No, not in real life, not really! I mean, I am definitely a naturally flirtatious person in the RW, but I certainly could NEVER be as open and frank as I am online given the protective shield of anonymity the internet gives me.

bubblegunnn · Answer

Im being flirty if the guys i like also flirt with me first which is i got them quiet a lot on socmed.. and irl i dont really into them cuz they r not my preference, so im not flirty to guys irl.. but once happened to me while i was in college, this guy went to high school w me and im into him, and then i went to college and we flirted on socmed not irl cuz we were far from each other

Nomina · Answer

I used to be very flirtatious online rather than in real life but now it's flipped.

Gotta say though, I do miss being flirty online for no reason other than it's fun.

I think I'm gonna bring it back 😏

dustybiker · Answer

I actually joke with everyone irk or online. I poke people gently to see if they have a sense of humor or not. I don’t flirt to flirt. In love I’m actually more blunt and serious.

MysticAngel5000 · Answer

I'm not too bad at flirting really. I'm a little more low-key and tame in person until I get to know someone and am aware of how they are as a person (and of course if they're single and feeling the same way).

NathanDavis · Answer

I am not flirtatious at all... not here, nor real life and I don't even have other social media... lol

Havthrills · Answer

Yep. I'm a flirt. Get so many rejections. Yet there's one woman here at work that offered me her couch if I need and said she wouldn't mind if I sneak in the bedroom. Lol

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

I’m pretty flirty, but I am NO WAY as flirty in real life as I CAN be here.

Kori1236 · Answer

I don’t flirt online. And don’t really know how to in real life lol.

TrueConfection · Answer

I think more so irl. I'm pretty flirtatious, but mostly business here on gag. 🤓

Rocambole · Answer

Only with people I know better in rl. At first I'm quite shy unless drunk.

TroyDT2 · Answer

More. I don't flirt on here. For all I know the pink might be some dude.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I act pretty much the same in real life as I do on here.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

More. I don’t “flirt” online. Every singular interaction online is entirely disposable. Flirtation is an investment.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope, I feel online allows for experimenting with ideas and gaining knowledge safely. Offline I'm not very sociable unless I've known the person a long time.

mobiusforniner · Answer

More so in person. Usually not trying to be flirty but gets perceived as such. I think it comes with age and maturity.

Voldra · Answer

I only flirt IRL. Couldn't imagine trying to with no eye contact / body language, I'd be blind AF! & who knows who I'd really be talking to if I did..#catfished :/

lucas262 · Answer

More so but never pushy. It's more sarcastic than romantic. And only if I don't actually have a thing for them if I did I'd probably never talk to them

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't call myself flirtatious, but when I am a little, I'm much more confident on social media. When I'm directly face to face with someone, I just get anxious and kinda crumble.

Luopio27 · Answer

I dont flirt online. Its only in real life when tones of voices, bodylanguage and everything comes to play.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Yes, I'm just as plain as here.

AdithyaR · Answer

Considering I'm basically zero flirtatious online, yeah I'm the exact same in real life.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I don't Flirt at all, Because I don't know how.

ManOnFire · Answer

Much more flirtatious in real life.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol @ more women answering this question then men.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i don't know how to flirt irl... i don't flirt

LazerBean · Answer

Yes.

JPresidente · Answer

Yes. I flirt a lot on here and in my daily life.

Prettysammie · Answer

Way more flirty in real life.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'm not flirtatious anywhere.

18Uma21 · Answer

I am much more flirtatious in real life

DrBanana · Answer

I’m more friendly than flirty I’d say in general.

MountAverage · Answer

I'm the opposite of flirtatious on here...

LavLavLuv · Answer

Flirty by nature but only to my friends 💀

serious · Answer

Absolutely not. Never. I never flirt.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

No I’m more flirtatious in real life

mandyfire98 · Answer

Probably a bit more.

rachel776 · Answer

boring 🤷‍♀️

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I don’t know how to flirt.

Brando10222 · Answer

Yeah, a lot more in real life

art84 · Answer

No cause i am too shy

Blackcupcake · Answer

I’m super NOT flirty

Fuentes · Answer

Yes with money

TheAfrikan · Answer

Nah in real life not that too flirty.

Nominal · Answer

No, i am not.

lauraanne02 · Answer

I try to be

BigBoyrodslinger · Answer

Hell yes I am

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Fuck no. Lol

hafinjun · Answer

Or more so😃

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