Are you extremely close to someone you work with but probably shouldn’t be?

[Anonymous]

Do you have a partner and also have a very close relationship with someone at work?

When I’m in the office a get the feeling that 2 girls like me more than others, they have partners as do I, they never openly over step the mark in terms of directly flirting but one in particular seems notably happier around me always smiling and often suggesting we go on our lunch together.

This continual probing has left me in no doubt about this girl, the seating plan at our Christmas party isn’t out but I just know as soon as the meal is over she’ll look for me or head over to my table as she did last year.

I feel she’s into me and think a part of her would like something to happen.

Are you in a similar situation, have you been in one and how are things currently.

[ManOnFire]

She probably is into you, regardless of her being with someone else already. This goes on a lot at the workplace. I've said this on GaG before: do not try to date women like this on the job. They know how they're playing you. Not only have I experienced this in the past, but I've seen it happen to other men as well. You always got the one woman who is married or whatnot but still flirting and talking to guys at work, or secretly sleeping with them. And I can guarantee you that even if she has a boyfriend/husband but is still watching you and liking you, there's probably another guy she's doing the same thing with who you most likely are not aware of.

Plus you have to keep in mind that at any time when she's ready to be done with you, she can go to HR and say you crossed boundaries or made her uncomfortable, even if you didn't, but they'll let you go and protect her. All too common in our modern work culture.