when you have a crush on someone, do you start liking them instantly or does it take some time for it to develop for you? also what attracts you to them?
I've experienced both. I used to disregard immediate attraction as lust and see what happened over time. Never regretted doing so.
What - beyond the physical form - makes someone attractive to me is ineffable. You can take two women who share a sense of humour, taste in movies, books, habits, etc and I will be attracted to one and on occasion even repulsed by the other. A habit they both have I'll see as "quirky" or "cute" in one but it's a red flag in the other.
You can't quantify what makes the ideal mate.
For me it is attraction or lust driven... and chatting her up is the extent of flirting and asking out before I exit if we chat well together. Make sense?
For me it's somewhat instant but it could be about looks and it could be about enjoying their company.
I feel attraction fast but actual feelings for someone take time
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Unless she is approximately my type physically, it takes time for me to be around her and develop a crush. I need to get to know her personality and character.
For me i can found her attractive , but having crush on her would actually take a bit time for me
Most of the time it happens instantly... Either I see them that way from the start or probably never will...
No, it takes time for a crush to develop for me
A light crush in an instant, but a heavy crush takes time.
It doesn't mean I want to date thrm, I just find them physically appealing
Takes quite awhile. May have a crush on her body, but only in a sexual way.
That's something I do I start out smoldering before I'm feeling completely distracted
I feel instantly attracted at times to a man.
depends on friendships vs relationships
It can be both.
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