How to attract older people?

[Frsiska]

I'm 20 and strongly attracted towards older guys with big age gap (at least 10 years). But even though I'm legal enough, they seemed to build barrier around them. It feels like they treat me like a kid (even though it might be true lol). What should I do to appear attractive to them? Or maybe younger girls are just not their preferences?

I'm bi, so this case also applied to older ladies.

[SueShe]

When a young lady starts flirting with elderly men, then it sends out the signal "cautious, gold digger".

That is how it is perceived because that is usually how gold diggers are operating. They target older men for the sole purpose to get as much money or goods out of them against payment with their bodies.

If you want to attract elderly men, then you have to ensure that you are not one of "them" and make it clear that you are not interested in their money and that you are not going to prostitute yourself for favors.

It may be difficult for you to get the right person that takes you for whom you are and not for a gold digger. Good luck.

[Justin1019]

First of all, are you looking for a committed relationship or a casual hook-up? If you're looking for casual hook-ups, don't tell me it won't work because it certainly will! Guys in casual relationships are only looking for sex and since you are younger than them, they will most likely find you more sexually attractive than women who are their age.

But if you're looking for committed relationships, then I can tell why you are failing.

The thing is that in committed relationships, men are looking for housewife types. Not another sex toy. Women nowadays, especially younger ones are too immature to the point that they can't can't take care of their men. Women nowadays can't fucking cook.

Older men whom you are attracted to probably don't see you as a potential wife because you are childish which they see as immature and not fit to be a responsible wife.

That's how I see it.

[Anonymous]

Although I have had sexual relations with an adult 11 years younger than me, in a serious context I automatically view people in their early 20s as incredibly immature and capable of very little, I call them the "TikTok Generation". The only way one could peak my interest is through knowing them, their viewpoint, intellectual ability etc.. so in this instance if you're wanting to pursue someone older the approach should be the same as for anyone you want to get to know. There is always some phase of getting to know each other and unless they are against an age gab this phase allows them to get to know you for how you are and not just as a young girl. Approach with caution and good luck

[NotTacocaT6969]

The majority of men are not pedophiles and are not interested in dating someone who was born when they were 10+.


You seem to be suffering from daddy issues and should probably seek help for that before you wind up chained in some 50 year old man’s basement.

[Shamalien]

A 30 year old dating a 20 yr old is not pedophilia…it’s how most of our parents were born actually

[SlothySlob]

If you really are 20, to me you are a kid. Depending on which part of the world we're looking at you can't even drink alcohol, legally. The other thing is, I don't have the time to play games.

[bowenw]

Try to go to places where men in the age group you are looking for frequent. Be yourself, but try to behave in a mature manner as some guys may not want to date someone that is immature.

[JPresidente]

Flirt. Compliment them on something and give them a playful shove.

[Girlpoop]

Guy's like younger girls too it's just looked down on so people restrict themselves

[Anonymous]

Maturity will attract older men like flies to honey.

[Summeroflove]

Ask someone out

[dazzinu69]

It ain't that hard lol.. just walk outside

[In_Trance]

Just have to be patient and find the right guys

[Anonymous]

Not sure

[tallblondejohm]

Just message me