Have you ever had a crush on your college professor and actually told them?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

When I was an undergrad, in Ohio, I took a day school Spanish class, AND i was absolutely enamored with my instructor!!! I was just back from military service, so I was older than most of my class mates. She (instructor) was stunning, and her name was "Peggy Kaufman, and I could hardly talk to her without feeling like a school boy. All of the men in the department (Language) were falling on their faces over her, but she was engaged to be married. I was failing Spanish, late in the Semester (too late to drop the class, at that point) BUT she kept me after class and said she would either 'pass' me with a "D" (she knew I worked my ass off during the semester to learn Spanish) OR she would allow me to drop the class, which I did.

Never forgot her to this day, and could have only been so lucky to have a talented woman like that in my life.

libsaretards · Accepted Answer

There is one professor I like since returning to college. I am close to 30 so I am in a similar age range as many of the adjunct (and even some tenured) professors.

However, I have not told her I like her. One, we are in a student/pupil relationship so it does not feel ethically appropriate to me. Two, I do not want things to get awkward since I have to take at least one more class (possibly 2) with her before my degree finishes. Three, I do not feel like I am in the same league. To be a professor means you are on your "A" game and likely have your life together whereas I am still picking up the pieces of my life.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Not college prof. HS English teacher. I think he knew.  I did go out with my sister's HS teacher a few times.

Msputiton · Accepted Answer

No. Never had one, and if i did would never tell them

John-E_63 · Answer

It wasn't college, it was high school. One of my homeroom teachers had the hots for me, she would always be near me, almost enough to have her boobs brush up against me, and her mid-section, one time when I was at my locker she grabbed my ass and then ran like the devil not wanting me to know it was her, but I knew it was. She was pretty and all, and I didn't really mind, I was flattered she found me attractive. It was near graduation time when I finally asked her, I forget the conversation, it was 45 years. ago. I asked her when I graduate if she would like me to call upon her or date her, she told me she had a fiancé and she was just flirting with me, but I believe it was more than that, but she didn't want to admit she "LIKED ME" But she persisted it was only flirting, so I left it there. Should I have pursued it further, or have to accept it was only flirting?

mobiusforniner · Answer

Yes, my college statistics teacher was a grad student majoring in mathematics. Her name was Ashlynn. Cute as hell. I'd leave her little notes or comics on the end of my homework assignments. She'd respond with a smiley face. That was about it.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope, and I would have not told them either I once had a very attractive teacher, but I would not call it a crush, was more like lust

OfMiceandMen · Answer

All of my professors where guys in my university program. Had some really gorgeous TAs though.

kellytheman · Answer

I had a young woman English professor and she was cute and available but I am not sure she would want to date one of her students so I never told her I had a crush on her but I kinda felt maybe she knew.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I did on my Latin American studies professor, but I didn't tell her 'cuz she had a husband and kid. But if she didn't I might have. She admired me

SweetTwistedSatanist · Answer

No, they were just older people who were in the way.

BJP21 · Answer

A good looking 50 year old Chemistry Professor. She was an absolute nerd, and I loved it.

WTFdivorce · Answer

Wonder what they would do if people had told them.

AdithyaR · Answer

I've never crushed on a professor of mine. Hopefully I won't become a professor who students crush on either.

SaoirseS · Answer

Nope, never had a crush on a college professor.

Guardian45 · Answer

An old biology prof, who was a hot longhaired redhead wearing black velour pantsuits!🥵

legalboxers · Answer

she laughed at me

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Yes but I’m too professional to fraternize

serious · Answer

No, never had any crush in my life.

strateguy632 · Answer

no.,

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

I crashed on my tutor once.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Nope.

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