It can be difficult to know for sure if a girl wants you to approach her, as people can often hide their feelings or intentions. However, here are a few signs that a girl may be interested in you and may want you to approach her:
Eye contact: If a girl is making eye contact with you, she may be trying to catch your attention and signal that she's interested in you.
Body language: If a girl is facing towards you, leaning in towards you, or playing with her hair, these may be signs that she wants you to approach her.
Smiling: If a girl is smiling at you, this could be a sign that she's open to interaction and may want you to approach her.Interaction: If a girl is engaging in light conversation with you or making small talk, this could be a sign that she's trying to get to know you better and may want you to approach her.
It's important to remember that these signs are not foolproof and that everyone is different. Some girls may be more direct in their signals, while others may be more subtle. Ultimately, the best way to determine if a girl wants you to approach her is to ask directly or to observe her behavior and body language over time.00 Reply
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Why worry about that, if you find her attractive say something, hey, haven't seen you here before. I'm new, be gentle, whatever, no one remembers how you introduce yourself anyway. Women get approached so often if they're hot they're not going to look at 95% of guys and be turned on to begin with.
You have to talk and see if there's something there. It isn't like you lose anything. There were weeks where I'd approach dozens of women and get shot down before I had the one who would go home with me or at least want a date or something if she was more conservative.
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- She unbuttons her shirt
- She has ESPN on your favorite sport, and has a cold beer for you.
- She comments on your dog, and you're walking alone.
- She tries to sell you a cookie
- She's asking for spare change.
- She takes her wedding ring off.
- She gets down on all fours and barks.
- She asks the bartender to send you a dry martini, shaken, never stirred.
- You're a congressmen, and she speaks Russian or Chinese.
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"She gets down on all fours and barks"
What? 😂
+1 yI would say the big ones would definitely be eye contact, her consistently looking you way, or even smiling at you. If she's walking in a certain direction and she looks at you for a few seconds. I've seen women do things like that. Sometimes they even walk up to you and make small talk, that's sometimes a way of trying to see if you're interested in her enough to ask her out or for her number.
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These are a few signs that she wants you.
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I like that "come here" one. In my case, though, it would probably be some mental condition she has. ;- )
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@Massageman :) :) :)
She makes eye contact and smiles. She randomly winds up standing right next to you when a minute ago she was way at the other end of the room.
40 Reply1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Twirling hair, lipstick/gloss application, same proximity never speaks, stares, head up and down and back up etc. Feel her vibe.
00 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Flirting topic. She checks you out and looks at you awhile
10 ReplyI think it is hard because every girl has her own style and while body language can indicate interest, it isn't reliable unless you are able to calibrate it. An outgoing girl might chat vivaciously with you without being interested in you while a shy girl might be quiet and keep a distance from you hoping that you will approach her. If you have just met her it is of course all the more difficult.
Observing how she is interacting with other men and if she is giving more attention to you is a guide. Eye contact is certainly a good cue. I don't think hair fixing is as some girls fiddle with their hair more than others.
Ultimately approaching her is the only way to know.
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+1 yDoes she smile at you or speak in passing? A girl appreciates someone to be upfront but not in an over confident or cocky way. If she has ever glanced your way and given you an either embarrassed smile or looked away quickly and then you caught her glancing back, she might be shy and waiting for you to make that first move.
00 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Flirting topic. I think this link is useful
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+1 ypositive energy, nervousness.
Remember... she needs your sperm to reproduce... that's the goal for the next 30 years. She has her drive as well, and it will show. Long duration goal is to secure your love so that she has you in "her camp" for purposes of life, such as raising offspring, sense of belonging, and security.
She... is the hunter!!!:) You... are the prey... but she can't let you know that.
00 Reply Eye contact. Extended smiles and looks.
But, stop looking for signs -- go approach her. The worst that happens is she's flattered but not interested and you are no different/worse off than when you began.00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yFlip a coin man. Because your odds of being right are as accurate as going with a coin flip. a lot of women will give a guy signs with the full intent of rejecting a guy that approaches her regardless. Never let a woman be the decider in whether you approach her or not. Do it because you want to and no other reason. And if it isn't going anywhere, if you feel she just gaming you. Smile and excuse yourself. Just because she's trash doesn't mean you need to be.
00 ReplyShe looks your way but averts her gaze when you catch her.
She adjusts her appearance and hair frequently.
She may move to a closer area to you or shifts her position to face you.
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+1 yShe makes eye contact with you or you catch her looking at you when she thinks you won't see. Smiling when you make eye contact, being always just in sight of you.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThere are none.
If you approach her she will instinctually assume you are a creep and You will either have to prove yourself through a series of shit tests or she will publicly shame you or potentially have you charged with “unwanted advancements”
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+1 ywhen she does that fake dick-sucking sign while staring at you... That's usually a good sign of that.
00 ReplyShe will drop hints
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+1 yLingering eye contact, fast glances, smiling, compliments you, jokes with you.. ladeedadeedooda
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+1 yI'll smile at you, wink and pat the seat next to me. Can't get any clearer than that!
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Thank you for being the way that you are, if all women were this direct, men would not be scared to approach.
That she keeps talking to you, laughing at things you say, smiling, prolonged eye contact, random touches? 👍💯😊
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all that usually happens after you approach her though lol
+1 yAn interested young lady's anus will begin to pulsate.
11 ReplyGreat question. It's like a game , on hard mode. You have to mind read. You think looking at you , smiling is a good sign. But not always. So I guess you'd have to take a plunge and se what happens. Or else we will never know.
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+1 yConstant eye contact and lots of smiling. But I will look for an excuse to talk to you and go from there...
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+1 yWell i would be looking at you invitingly n would be giving u smile n would flirt with u a little
00 ReplyGood eye contact, some occasional touching body language. It does the trick every time!
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+1 yFaces body towards you or lean toward you. Look at you and smiles when talking. People tend to face body towards what they’re interested in.
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+1 yThere's no way of knowing for sure these days. Usually it helps to look at her body language especially when talking to her.
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Flirting topic. There aren't any
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIf she looks angry and act like she doesn’t care at all and bumps into things when walking she likes you
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+1 yHer nipples are pointing at you going, "I want HIM!!".
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+1 yEven with all the signs other posts are mentioning, some don't actually want to be approached.
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+1 yShe stares at you intently and when you look back at her she smiles it makes me really uncomfortable actually
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+1 yUnless she's scowling at me I just assume it is okay.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yprobably looking at you multiple times (not a subtle look)
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThere's none but don't fail to remember that if you approach you will be seen as the harasser and sent to prison for many years
00 Reply377 opinions shared on Flirting topic. She still has not called the cops or male bystanders to beat you up.
00 ReplyWhen she gives the "come hither" signal with her index finger
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+1 yShe will ask you how do she looks and how is her dress looking
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+1 ymaintains eye contact and a smile with you, she makes a point to be physically close to you
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+1 yShe is looking at you for help since a perv is next to her bothering her
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+1 yShe will have eye contact and smile and will bite her lips
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+1 yShe acknowledges you!
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+1 yJust talk to her why go for Signs?
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Because a lot of women are angry bitter misandrists, who want to act like a victim when they aren't, and see guys so much as just saying "hi" and telling them they are attractive, as some kind of horrible attack on them. Thus "just talking to her" isn't an option in most cases.
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Yeah well i understand their bitterness. But not everyone is the same I hope? After going through tons of heartbreak one tends to become bitter with time
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Only if they stereotype. A decent human being can have lots of heartache and still treat the next person with no assumptions about their intent or character.
Don't be understanding of judging a book by its cover, condemn it, judge it, ridicule it. - +1 y
Hey I have been through some quiet myself but I never treated anyone poorly coz of that
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Making assumptions about people is treating them poorly.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yWhy do you need signs? Just talk.
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+1 yYou will just know it.
00 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Her eyes will tell you
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+1 yIf try to connect you on a minor things 🙂
00 ReplyThe look in hers eye they tell everything.
00 ReplyHolds eye contact and smiles at you!
00 ReplyWhen she points at you and laughs
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Eye contact.
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