Contact or don't contact a girl who I was intimate with right before her latest ex of a year who I am guessing broke up less than a month ago?

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We were coworkers. I was her first love. Eventually we got intimate but I see things in her that I don't want in a partner so I wanted to just be friends.

I stopped talking to her though at her boyfriend's request. I never spoke to him but she told me. It was nbd to me because I wanted her to get over me. I only checked on her instagram last month because she didn't say happy birthday and I was curious. It seemed good with her boyfriend. Then I just checked now because something reminded me of her and her boyfriend is nowhere in her posts. I think we can assume they broke up. Honestly I'm kinda dtf too so I thought this might be a good opportunity. What do you think? Please share what you know.

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Contact or don't contact a girl who I was intimate with right before her latest ex of a year who I am guessing broke up less than a month ago?
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