How to indirectly reciprocate interest to a guy without ruining things?

[Anonymous]

A guy I like is also showing interest non-verbally like locking eyes, paying attention to me and asking personal questions. I read somewhere that girls should never make the first move. What should I be doing to express my interest in a non-direct way? I’ve thought about giving a soft smile when next time he gives me those deep eye looks.

Also, do guys pursue directly once they get confirmation of interest in a non-verbal way?

[MrCommodore]

Yes we will pursue and make the first move if getting a few different subtle signs of interest. You may have to initiate contact with him though, as most men (Myself included) are more reluctant to make a move these days unless the signs are clear.

[Asker]

Hi there! I had initiated conversations and he was quick to respond and kept up with the long chats and then suddenly, in one chat, I saw minimal response. Can I DM you to give you details for better context so you can help me what really happened and what to do next?

[MrCommodore]

Sure, go ahead

[MrCommodore]

Just note I'm in meetings for next couple of hours, so I'll have limited time.

[Asker]

Thanks and yea I’ll be mindful of your schedule :)

[Asker]

I followed you. I am not able to send you DM because it says that you allow them from only people you are following.

[Asker]

I was able to DM you now. Thanks.
Apologies in advance for sending lot of text in DM. It is to give you context. Please reply when you can. And thanks for letting me know about your busy schedule.

[Guy13]

What you like to do. What he likes to do. Lets do together. Small talk to a "Hello"

[Asker]

Hmm that’s a good idea thanks!

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to expressing interest in someone, and that everyone has their own unique communication style and preferences.

If you're interested in this guy, there are several ways you can indirectly reciprocate his interest without being too forward or aggressive. Some examples include:

1. Making eye contact with him and smiling warmly
2. Laughing at his jokes and finding ways to engage in conversation with him
3. Finding opportunities to be near him or spend time with him
4. Complimenting him on his appearance or personality in a casual and friendly way
5. Finding subtle ways to touch him, such as lightly brushing his arm or shoulder

Remember that while these behaviors can indicate interest, they are not a guarantee that the other person will pursue you directly. It's important to be clear and direct about your feelings if you want to ensure that the other person understands your intentions.

If you're unsure about how to proceed, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or therapist about your feelings and concerns. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and to communicate in a way that aligns with your values and priorities.

[Asker]

This is great! Thanks! I especially liked the last line! I’ll try your tips 1 to 4 as and when I get chances.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[bean2k21]

Reciprocating interest to someone indirectly can be tricky, as it might not be immediately clear to the other person that you are interested in them. However, there are a few things you can do to show your interest without being too forward or risking ruining your relationship with the person.

• Initiate Punishment: If you offend them, offer to pull your pants down and get horsewhipped
• Kneel before them: And ask if you can be their slave
• Ask Permission: Send them texts asking for permission to pleasure yourself
• Let them know when you climax: Better yet send pictures of the evidence.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to be yourself and let things progress naturally.

[Asker]

What? Aren’t those sureshot ways to put a full stop? Lol

[Makeushiver]

You seem to be on the right beam. If you want him to approach and it’s shyness, don’t push aloofness too much. If you sext him-or anyone for that matter- stop before the last sext you were going to send

[In_Trance]

Jesus... One of you needs to shoot your shot

[Asker]

Pretty sure it’s not going to be me :( never saying anything directly!

[In_Trance]

Your question specified you don't want to ruin things but by not saying anything you're actually going to ruin things.
Since you take a hard stand on actually making the move you probably don't like him as much as you initially thought you did

[Asker]

I wish it was easy to say!