We have locked eyes a couple of times and I find him very irresistibly cute 😭
What should I do? And I’m too scared to make the first move ie ask him out!
I feel you I feel you lol except for me it’s my coworker , not a barista but I say just be friends and get to know him more, see what can come out of it. You don’t have to ask him out instantly, some of the best relationships actually start off as friendships.
She's on holiday. She needs to act quickly.
Alyssa, you're gonna have to flirt with him, talk to him about how you're on vacation. He'll immediately know that you're down for sex. I mean provided that your parents aren't with you at the time.
What you do is write down your phone number on a napkin, and put in in his hand with a big smile.
I’m not down for sex I thought a date would be nice 😂😂
Yeah 😂 maybe a kiss that’s all
Write your number on a large tip and leave it for him.
Its not worth the risk, Move to Ireland instead, despite your ex coming from here, there is a minority of tall cute irresistible other guys.
Ah to be surrounded by the irresistible Irish accent
Slip him your phone number. Tell him you're there for holiday and have only a few days - call me. What have you got to lose? Nothing. If you do nothing, that's what will happen - absolutely nothing, so have a nice holiday. You'll regret not doing anything for the rest of your life.
Well, then live in fantasy world. If you are too scared to approach him. You won’t get far. Im sure he find hundreds of more attractive females on a daily basis.. so you don’t really stand out. Even if you lock eyes. Be bold and be different go for what you want.
Ask him to help you with something (like any sights to see) and if he's friendly you can ask if you can have his number so you can text him with any other questions.
Unless you're looking for a one night stand, which I know you aren't, just leave him alone. You live in different countries and he probably isn't Muslim and he's probably taken anyways.
He’s Muslim lol but like that’s ever stopped any guy before smh
Of course he is. What are the fucking odds?😂
Lol he’s so sexy though smh
Oh lord... I'm so jealous you only date Muslim men😂
That’s weird 😂
Just weird lol
Why? It's not my fault y'all are so fineeeeeeee🤣
Though there's plenty of other reasons to like you besides your looks. Ugh. If only more Western girls were like you guys😂
Really in what way?
Eastern girls are more humble and loyal, I feel. And more genuine.
Hmmmm sometimes but not always
Whatever. Any progress?
Haven’t been back yet lol
First, stop crying and slap yourself for being indecisive 🤣. Alyssa you are to go and talk to him say hi, just saw you noticed me. How you doing and viola let your beauty do the magic for you
pssh you said you weren't afraid of approaching? wassup? lol
well ask him how his days been? how long he's been working there... you know start a convo :P
That’s incredible you went on a vacation all by yourself that is something
Thanks!!! I’m so happy and I’m really enjoying myself. I got away from the gloomy UK weather and I’m somewhere quite sunny and peaceful. I’m working remotely and then I walk by the beach every day and hang out.
Strike up a conversation, see if he’s your type, and look for red flags. And you’re on vacation, so have fun!
Yeah you should and if he likes you he would love to go out with. I think mote girls be the hunter than being hunted because most guys don't reject women and are flattered being asked out.
Talk to him and ask him questions like what is he doing this weekend.
Ask him what time he gets off work. Then get him off.
talk to him. you learn a lot with basic conversation about random things
Are you into girls or no?
Ask him out or go without. He won't risk his job by asking you.
If it were me I wouldn't do anything just forget about it
Well he's a barista, so he's probably gay
Wait no that’s not true 😂
Lol! At least you ha e a sense of humor. I'm sure he'll like you 😉
Lol I’m just thinking of the 2 other baristas I’ve liked before and I thought damn there’s no way it was all in my head 😂
😂 Were they gay?
I don’t think so! One of them was flirting with me for 2 years straight - I’m talking free coffee and lunch every day 😭 but he never had the balls to ask me out smh
What! You'd think he'd at least get your number lol
Technically you could leave them your number and put the ball in their court.
It's not really asking them out if you're not the type of girl who does that
It was so annoying. He was so cute. Every time I walked in his coworkers would start teasing him. The most he’d ever done was compliment my outfit 😭. Then Covid happened and I never saw him again lol
I’m also wayyyy too shy to leave my number. In my head I thought the fact that I was showing up for 2 years straight should show that I’m interested
I almost wonder if baristas can get in trouble for hitting on customers. Like it could make them uncomfortable and they won't come back
It could be that! But yeah since we’re on the topic…. Romantic experiences with your local barista is definitely a thing 😂😂😂
Lol I bet! Especially since coffee shops typically attract a younger crowd.
I hope you get to go out with this one 😊
Just write your number on your cup, hand it to him and walk out lol. I'd text you if I was him
Aw okay thank you!
Be as flirty as you can, and make the first move.
Why scared? Do they eat people who ask them out?
tell him he makes the best carmel latte you've ever had... and go from there. Or "I'll bet girls hit on you all the time, their such a pain in the neck, hugh"? something witty, different and fun.
and peel the onion from there...
Haha I only do black coffee but I could compliment him on that
yes, good luck, just don't make it boring:) guys love their ego stroked... e. g. respect!