What is backhanded compliment?

Go on YouTube and search "negging." It's a tool that players use to get laid.
"OMG, you look so hot in that dress! My grandma had the same dress."
I've tried to teach it to guys on this site, but they're all beyond hope. They just come here to bitch. Some guy was crying because he was 5' 4".
I showed him 4' 3".
It's the whole "you're smart for a girl" type thing. Basically saying something which implies an insult too. Like "you clean up nice" implies they don't look good other times.
If a woman tell you you lost weight and then she laugh saying you like what i told you what does it mean?
I wouldn't say that's a backhanded compliment. She sounds like a bitch though
What does it mean bitch though?
She sounds mean
Why?
Why she told that?
What she mean?
I don't know why but it's a mean thing to do.
What is mean thing?
You're pretty smart for a girl
Like when your female colleague who you think is so horrible as a human being shows up to work with a horrible haircut, and you don't wanna hurt her so you say, "It suits your personality!"
If a woman tell you you lost weight and then she laugh saying you like what i told you what does it mean?
I like the idea of just touching her a lot after until it makes her uncomfortable or until she loves you.
What does it mean? Why she told that?
An insult framed as a compliment.
You're not that fat.
You look okay when the lights are dim.
If a woman tell you you lost weight and then she laugh saying you like what i told you what does it mean?
Can you tell me?
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Usually called a 'put-down©' for crowd experience maintenance or trophy-girl logistics.. the backhand part gives reference to a supplement to 'the dozens©' inferring that you're so stupid that you need a real "overt" (hand gesture quoted) type of gesture for taking a snack whether the person found out by them, word of mouth or third-fourth-or fifth person bathroom drool ---
'.. put you/down/flip a/back/handed/compliment --
Talk/to your/hoe/ABSENT/teach/that bitch/like I/dropped/off a package...
IZOD🐊/CHEST/START/RAP BEEF_-__ PULL/A/PROTON CANNON/TAKE YOUR/CHIEF'S KIEFFGH/___--UM/BRELLA/ON YUH/HEAD/LIKE A DUCK/TWERKED/NOW YOU WANNA/WEAR DREADS/AND BE A/BUM FLIRT..(YEAH)
maybe urban dictionary app may help you more with other meanings
This is a good question for someone anonymous.
Google it
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