Should I dm the guy I have been dming for 5 days first or do I wait? He seems interested but I don't want to seem desperate but want to get closer?

[jennygoldie_04]

I have been dming with this guy for 5 days and he suggested to meet up with me at the open house for the college we are going to. If the convo has been going well and he like my messages a lot, sends emojis and jokes around with me should I just wait or should I start a new convo?

[Summeroflove]

What do you mean by coming across as desperate? If anything he’s being desperate.

If you ignore someone… Unless they’re like obsessive they’re probably just gonna move on. Point blank. The ones who won’t are the people who are borderline to fill on stalkers.

If you’re into him. Then talk to him. I’m sorry this question is so retarded.

Most people loose interest when you ignore them… Just saying.

[ZanPiece]

Omg message him! If you like a guy don't be afraid to show him guys like that it takes some of the pressure off on of them as well and you guys can settle into something more once there's no more doubt about how you feel. Don't let not wanting to look desperate or not wanting to be rejected hold you back from doing something those are the kinds of games guys hate. Be the strong empowered confident women you are! Not a meek insecure little girl trust me it will get you farther with guys than the girls who make it all the guys job to show he likes her enough

[Summeroflove]

Right? Ignoring someone is a sure way to chase them off and have them loose interest.

Why show interest in someone and get nothing back?

[gerald5466]

yes you should cause it means a lot to the guy when the girl text first, ft first, calls first, or really anything first

[RockyHammock]

If you want to talk to him, talk to him. It gets tiring when as a guy, you're always the one to keep the relationship alive.

[strlb]

What are you waiting for... dont be shy, hit him up!

[LazerBean]

It's just a message, go ahead.