Girls, What makes an attractive guy intimidating to approach?

[Cooliochillman]

What makes a good looking/hot guy hard to approach? What can a guy do that would make it easier to approach him?

[Anonymous]

I find it hard to approach all guys lol.

But to answer your question, I find it intimidating to approach an attractive guy because:

• He's out of my league.
• 99% sure he's not attracted to me.
• He already has a lot of women wanting him and chasing him.
• He could do better and get a beautiful woman instead of me, a 4/10.
• He hasn't made eye contact with me even once, meaning he doesn't find me attractive.
• There will be too much competition for me with beautiful women, and I am too lazy to compete.
• He is probably a player or a douchebag. Probably has a lot of female friends.
• He would probably embarrass me if I approached him.
• He is probably not religious because he gets everything he wants.

Yeah, that's why.

Easier to approach? Hm..

He could make eye contact for at least 2 seconds and smile, or even say hi every once in a while when he sees you. That would make him less intimidating and be sort of inviting me to go talk to him.

[Boomchakalaca]

Fear of rejection, out of their league, won't find me attractive, an attractive guy can come off as douche and that goes for women as well. Its how they project themselves. Stylish men intimidate me as in, excessive accessories, but if im at their same lvl of stylish that day.. cross it out. omg sunglasses intimidate me, the real shady ones like matrix 😂 If he is wearing a leather jack im intimidated. Bald head, intimidated. I love leather jackets on men and women, given the right people.




Not intimidated:

Intimidated 😳:

[DizzyDesii]

I mean if he's out of my league, I’ll still approach in a friendly manner but im not gonna ask him out. And if he asks me out, which many have, I kinda freak out and decline because sometimes i doubt i have what it takes to maintain their interest in the longrun

[Cooliochillman]

Lol how do you know if you dont try though. Im decent looking if I saw a girl giving me signs she was interested and she still says no.. i will be scratching my head all night.

[DizzyDesii]

I mean im technically trying right now and i doubt myself on occasion that i have what it takes to keep him. So yea thats why i usually decline those i feel are outta my league

[Cooliochillman]

I get it. But the good things in life are worth fighting for. I would like for a girl to approach me and start the flirting and apply some pressure to it. Then I return the favor later that night lol

[Puppystarfish23]

I find it really hard to approach guys who don't really make the first move because I just don't know they will react if go in first and make the conversation they might be hostile toward me. When they are kinda shy and don't really have many friends either it can make it harder but funny enough that sounds just like my type 😄

Also just body language as well if I don't ever see them smile or joking around I just think they probably hate me so I'm not gonna bother

[4ngelic]

for me they're only intimidating if they have that closed off mean cold vibe, are extremely extremely extremely good looking or they look super rich

[Anonymous]

If he is arrogant or self obsessed then its quite intimidating, playing mind games or flirting with so many girls is intimidating.
But if he is humble sweet caring friendly and knows what is right what is wrong makes him highly desirable.

[TacosRAwesome]

He's an attractive guy 😂 and probably not into me.

[Cooliochillman]

Meh.. you dont seem ugly from your pic. You probably get hit on pretty often.

[Reem12345reem]

im too shy to even approach average or medium ugly guys

[Jazzy54]

Nothing. He’s still a person. However, I can only speak for myself. I’ve always been bold with men.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

A lack of confidence!

[JosyJosy]

If he's not right in the head, a douche, angry.

[Anonymous]

Nothing at all.

[Cooliochillman]

So most of the guys you have been with have you approached them first or have they?