A girl is driving me insane thinking about her?

[Anonymous]

There is a new girl that's started in the office

The most beautiful girl I seen and all staff notice but she ignored me all week purposely avoided me chatted to everyone but me and I'm so confused

The girl keeps staring at me and a lot extra when alone from a distance away and avoiding me it drives me crazy I

Then I looked into her eyes she looked away started pressing her lips together and playing with her hair

Help me understand?

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Girls help?

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more Ideas please?

[IAmAzzurra]

If a girl is avoiding you, it’s because she knows you like her and she doesn’t want to lead you on

[Asker]

I have not shown one sign of liking her intact I have not interacted with her

[IAmAzzurra]

It’s a mystery. There must be a reason she doesn’t talk to you.

[Asker]

That's why I'm here for help? she stares at me all day on off even looks back checking for me I just do my job

[IAmAzzurra]

Girls aren’t as complex as people say.
If she liked you, she’d straight up make the effort to talk to you

She doesn’t sound like the shy type.

She may be trying to understand you or figure you out, if you have a big presence in a room.
We observe people who command a room. We can’t help it:

Why not smile at her?

[Asker]

I would be good lucking popular very smart and be the go to guy in there for lot of people work wise

I stared back in her eyes when she stared at me alone and she turned away started sucking her lips and playing with her hair

[IAmAzzurra]

If you are the dominant guy in a room, she is probably intimidated by you.
She’s observing you.

[Asker]

I still do not understand why she's nice to everyone and games with me

[IAmAzzurra]

Did you accidentally ignore her at any point?

[IAmAzzurra]

…. because something has put her off talking to you.

We don’t ignore guys for no reason. We don’t talk to guys we think don’t want to talk to us. Even if it’s a misunderstanding

[Asker]

Yep but she ignored me more like figured out how to keep out of my way so weird?

[IAmAzzurra]

It sounds like you’ve just misunderstood each other.

If you go and talk to her, she’ll be fine

[Asker]

I think with so many staff around also watching she wants to work professionally like me also
With gossip etc

[IAmAzzurra]

Smile at tier. She isn’t going to do anything about this situation until you do, which means that she actually is shy.
She is waiting for your lead, whether it’s in work, or anything else

[Anonymous]

Do my a favor. Just smile at her & be cool about it.

[Asker]

I do smile from a distance I haven't got close.
Is she into me?
Everyone in there knows she's beautiful

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure if she's into you.
She keeps her distance because she may indeed know you like her. So, Here's the thing. You may not of said anything pertaining to your liking of her but PHYSICALLY you tell her love
It's okay. She's keeping her distance and that's okay too. She doesn't know you. Just remember the best relationships are friends to lovers. Be calm cool amd collected. Just say hey up close. Smile always smile. Seem friendly when you're comfortable go speak to her doesn't have to be long. Just introduce yourself to her and welcome her to the team

[Asker]

Will do. there is no way she could think I like her?

[Opinion Owner]

Again she may very well already know you like her. If she's as beautiful as you say she is... she's already experienced men like you lol but it's okay. Just show her respect

[Asker]

There is no way she could think I like her sorry
She only plays games with me chats to everyone else

[Opinion Owner]

Well then why be with someone like her?

[Asker]

I'm not with her I'm attracted to her I'm trying to figure out her behaviour?

[Opinion Owner]

That's okay love. Just do what I say

[Ben487]

she either likes you or hates you. Hard to say.

[Ben487]

also women are better at body language then males she might know what you're thinking

[Asker]

Thats crazy I just done my job as usual !
She chatted to everyone all week apart from me?

[Ben487]

do you stand out? are you like ridiculously good looking or something?

[Asker]

I would be good lucking popular very smart and be the go to guy in there for lot of people work wise

[Ben487]

okay then its more likely she likes you. You probably should be the one to start a conversation she's being shy.

[Asker]

I'm waiting for my chance lots of coworkers around in the way !🤣

[the_man57]

Don't date coworkers