Hey, I have asked a question about this girl before but now I may have realized that she's probably being a bad influence for my mental health (not her fault) I really need an advice for you guys and girls. To be honestI entered on this site just for here
So I met this girl at college about a year and a half. At first we were just friends for months and I liked it that way Unfortunately I started to developed feelings towards her because I progressively realized she's like my dream girl, I just love the way she is, her weaknesses doesn't even bother to me. I never hinted on her or her on me. It was something that happened out of nowhere and I tried not to think about her in that way for months because I knew she was seeing someone and she still do today and her friendship was very important to me. It comes a day that I can't handle any more my feelings, so I told her I liked her a day we hang out. I thought by doing that, I was gonna be able to feel relieved and go on with my own life, unfortunately, IT DOESN'T WORK AT ALL. She's a really cool girl funny and interesting but she's very very insecure and depressed as well. The problem is that I've always been a very positive, non-emotional, logical, laid back and objective person, I really meant it, all my life until I started falling for this girl. I don't really know what's happening with me, I don't even recognize myself. She's the first girl that make feel this way, I'm almost obsessed with her, I think trying to empathize with her, I became insecure and anxious myself, to the point that I HAVE CRIED for her and various situations involving her. I NEVER cry for anything (not saying is bad I'm saying I had always been very strong emotionally). I really want to be with her but... this is cliché I think but she makes me feel I'm not enough, she makes me anxious insecure, depressed I feel the urge to feel accepted I feel so pathetic right now. I think breaking up firnedship is the best, but I don't want to lose her
So I met this girl at college about a year and a half. At first we were just friends for months and I liked it that way Unfortunately I started to developed feelings towards her because I progressively realized she's like my dream girl, I just love the way she is, her weaknesses doesn't even bother to me. I never hinted on her or her on me. It was something that happened out of nowhere and I tried not to think about her in that way for months because I knew she was seeing someone and she still do today and her friendship was very important to me. It comes a day that I can't handle any more my feelings, so I told her I liked her a day we hang out. I thought by doing that, I was gonna be able to feel relieved and go on with my own life, unfortunately, IT DOESN'T WORK AT ALL. She's a really cool girl funny and interesting but she's very very insecure and depressed as well. The problem is that I've always been a very positive, non-emotional, logical, laid back and objective person, I really meant it, all my life until I started falling for this girl. I don't really know what's happening with me, I don't even recognize myself. She's the first girl that make feel this way, I'm almost obsessed with her, I think trying to empathize with her, I became insecure and anxious myself, to the point that I HAVE CRIED for her and various situations involving her. I NEVER cry for anything (not saying is bad I'm saying I had always been very strong emotionally). I really want to be with her but... this is cliché I think but she makes me feel I'm not enough, she makes me anxious insecure, depressed I feel the urge to feel accepted I feel so pathetic right now. I think breaking up firnedship is the best, but I don't want to lose her
