If you met someone who knew me, they’d tell you to be careful with me because I’m flirty.. ?

[Anonymous]

My real question is.. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.. it’s like I wrap people around my finger until they like me then I push them away or act uninterested and won’t let anyone in.

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I picture a disaster or fear they won’t like me when they know the full me.

[lolligaggin]

"I picture a disaster or fear they won’t like me when they know the full me."

Well if they don't it's only because you're a horrible person who toys with the emotions of men and then purposely throws them away like trash.

Anyone who sticks around after knowing that is someone you should be suspicious of. Is this a real question?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

It's what you said, you push them away before they can hurt you. It's common.

[Asker]

That makes me look insecure

[ImalwaysrightOK]

You probably been hurt in the past and it's a defense mechanism.

[Asker]

I’m still not over someone.. I realize this when someone else is interested in me.. I start thinking of them. And I ghosted this person simply because I was mad at him.. I think I used that as an excuse because I was starting to fall in love, and he doesn’t know.. he never got the proper closer I could’ve gave him

[Asker]

But yet, here I am letting other people come into my life.. I’m a mess

[ImalwaysrightOK]

At least it's good for them that you keep them away until you're ready because using someone as a rebound is mean.

[Asker]

It’s not really a rebound if they give me the impression that they food around

[Asker]

It’s not really bad* if..

[Yannishka]

It's being treated as a game.

[Asker]

It seems that way, but I think I’m just disturbed or mentally ill. I need help