Everyone says I'm really flirty?

[Anonymous]

I honestly didn't notice this in myself. I have always been extremely talkative. I love engaging in conversations. I love talking to and meeting new people. I love cracking jokes and making others laugh and smile. and I always engage in tons of playful teasing as its a fun way to bond with others. I don't think I'm particularly touchy but if someone touches me in a friendly manner like on the arm, I'm not afraid to return the favour. I also realize I smile and laugh a lot in presence of others but I'm just normally a very bubbly and energetic person. I asked the people who said this to me, why they thought this way and apparently its "the way I talk" Is this bad? I mean am I really flirting unintentionally? I'm straight and this is how I socialize regardless of gender.

[kobeni]

as sad as it is, most guys think any friendly upbeat conversation is flirting. this is because it's rare for guys to just have conversations like that with girls

[Justaguyagain]

I dont know if it is bad, it can lead to some situations. Maybe turn it down a little bit when it comes to guys? If you want to chage that, that is

[Justaguyagain]

change* i meant

[Asker]

I love that about myself though. I love people. and most people also appreciate that trait of mine. how would I tone it down?

[Justaguyagain]

Specially teasing or getting touchy. If i get touchy with a girl, i am trying to flirt, if she does the same i would think she is interested. Regardless, there are always people that think that a friendly girl Is actually flirting with them, so the problem isn't yours necessarily

[ItsZaman]

You are just friendly and love to have fun