Talk to her.
Ask a simple question like "is that book any good?" Then ask why she likes it.
Don't think to hard and don't get wrapped up in asking her out or for her phone number. Don't try to impress, that shows as needy. Just try to start an easy conversation. Do that first.
See if she is what you think she is. Then you start thinking about the next step.
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I met a very good friend of mine back in the university library. I had a crush on him.
I was just reading a book and looking out of window, there he was, one of the most handsome and smartest guys I’ve met.
He approached and asked me something about our class.
Since that day we often met each other in the library.
Turns out he was a very smart person and was impressed with my mind as well.
We often read books together, went to theatre, he used to read his poetry to me. He always said he was proud to have a friend like me.
He had a long distance girlfriend in another country, who he finally married.
He invited me to meet his wife a few times, he said he has told his wife a lot about me, but I honestly couldn’t do it, because I had a crush on him and didn’t feel like I could meet his wife and be friends with them, because I remember every time he looked at me, I felt so shy and weak in my knees and I just couldn’t handle being this way next to his wife haha
He asked me a few times to meet him, when he was married. But I couldn’t.
Gosh, I am so talkative. Approach her first…
Pretending you are looking for a book but you failed and ask for her help
Knighted2170 has it right. Just start a convo on SOME pretext (no pun intended).
Or, push the book through the shelf so it falls on their foot. Seen that in a bunch of movies, too.
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You could try screaming her name and waiving at her. That’d definitely do it.
Yell out his name as if you were yelling for the ice cream man to stop. He'll notice you for sure. He might think your crazy and like that type. I know I would.
Probably not the greatest place to do so, since you're really not supposed to be talking in a library
By speaking at 50db. She should notice that
Massageman is on the right track
Throw a book at her or something, then say "oops" and that opens up a dialogue for you and her
By going up and introducing yourself. If you wait for her to approach you she’ll be married to another guy.
Google "Seinfeld", "Kramer" and "Joe DiMaggio"...
Find out what she likes to read and start reading it in front of her
dress well and wesr some cologne, women that like you will tell you you smell good
Say hi and make conversation. 😊
Play loud music :)
Bump into her by accident, lol.
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