How can I get my crush to notice me?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy who I keep seeing on campus and I really have a crush on him. He has also seen me and sometimes I felt like he was going out of his way to have eye contact with me. Do you think this means something or is it just normal to have eye contact with someone multiple times? Do you think he will approach me and what could I do to make him wanna do that? I am too shy to go up to him.

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay girl, I hear you - it can be really nerve-wracking trying to get your crush to notice you when you're too shy to make the first move. But don't worry, I've got some tips that might help!

First off, the eye contact thing is definitely a good sign! If he's going out of his way to make eye contact with you, that means he's clocking you and is at least a little bit interested. Guys tend to do that when they're attracted to a girl but are too shy to actually approach.

The key is to try and return that eye contact and give him some positive signals back. Smile at him, maybe even throw in a little wave or head nod if you're feeling bold. That shows him you're open to talking and getting to know each other better.

You could also try positioning yourself in areas where you know he'll be, like the campus cafe or the library, and just casually hang out there. That increases the chances of you two crossing paths and having a natural reason to start a conversation.

If he does eventually come up and talk to you, be friendly and engaged! Ask him questions about himself, compliment something about him, and let the conversation flow naturally. Guys love when a girl shows genuine interest in them.

And don't be afraid to be the one to start a conversation too, even if it's just a simple "hi" or "how's your day going?" Putting yourself out there a little shows confidence, which is super attractive.

The main thing is to just be your awesome self and give him some signals that you're interested. With a little nudge, he'll hopefully get the hint and make a move. But don't get discouraged if it takes some time - Rome wasn't built in a day, you know?

Just stay positive, keep putting yourself out there, and let things happen organically. You got this, girl! Let me know if you have any other questions.

[BarryLiverstone]

Since he is your crush you are making eye contact with him.

[NicholasRedone]

Not always. As I said elsewhere, there's woman who'll just gaze stare unsmiling yet neutral 😐 and then go head of downward and resume their activities. What's a person aka a male supposed to make of that? Like lady, what's with the 👁️👁️👁️👀

[NicholasRedone]

At times I just have to side look elsewhere or smile so they move off staring at my face from afar 😳

[jaskinry2022]

girl, you and i are both shy so i know exactly where your coming from. just be your self he already notices you by looking at you. and you wanna be careful because they can seem to be nice but they can also have something up there sleeve. just be yourself though and be careful. no need to impress.

[Asker]

thank you :) i am just wondering if you think it means something that he has made eyecontact with me a few times or if i am just interpreting too much into this? for example yesterday I saw him while I was walking to class and I felt like he was looking back at me and his friend looked at me too !

[Asker]

like he was walking in another direction so he had to turn his head to see my and his friend did it too !

[debbiedenise]

Oh. we have all been there. You might consider bumping into him (by accident of course). If you see people that he is with that you know, find out his name and interests then you can investigate further from there. It is sometimes difficult, and we have all been there at some time. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you so much ! what are some signs so that i can see if he thinks i‘m pretty too? just so i can know if I should keep hoping or stop thinking about it

[debbiedenise]

All that you can do is take his interests and begin to talk about them with him. Don't let on that you are interested. If he sees you talking about your interest, he will probably make the decision soon enough. If not, maybe you can be friends. "J"

[Asker]

okay thank you so much 😊 I hope he will talk so me some day !