How do I get him to approach me?

[Anonymous]

How do I get him to approach me I've been running to the gym a few days a week a month or two after being in a bad relationship, and its helped me as a way to heal. I've been gaining some confidence in myself and feeling better between working out and eating right. I've gotten a little bit of a crush on one of the personal trainers but I'm nervous to talk to him. He seems a bit out of my league, even if I was ready to just jump back into dating immediately right now. I've caught him glancing up a time or two when I walk by his office and he's waved or said good morning a time or two. I'm just a very awkward person and wasn't sure what to carry on a conversation about. He's been pretty quiet lately and is normally busy training someone. I'm normally gone within a hour or two.

[_Maya_]

Okay so the wave and good morning disregard. He is paid to be nice to people. That is his job to keep you, the customer, happy. Especially because you are likely paying him. Don't take that as a sign he is interested. It also doesn't mean he wouldn't be. He is likely not allowed to hit on customers. The way I would do it is ask what he likes doing outside of work and see if you have something in common. Example is he says I like to go to the park. You say I know a great park that I like to walk in. Any chance you want to join me sometime?

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as leagues when it comes to dating. You can approach anyone if you have the confidence.

[JoeMichael67]

Society has instilled this belief into girls that guys are supposed to make the first move, but guys are more shy than you think (well, guys who aren't full of themselves). If you like him strike up a convo, otherwise you may lose a missed opportunity.

[SingleGuy101]

Some men won't approach you. They want you to approach them.

[Anonymous]

Make eye contact and smile. If he notices it, then approach him.

[Iron_Man]

Smile and be friendly