Been rejected twice, third time the charm?

[4getN4feit]

same person rejected me twice in 5 years. However this time after reuniting (after not speakin for a few months)... I'm getting strong flirting vibes from her. Maybe I'll play smooth to see if she says anything.

[RyanK9b]

I guess she's using you.
If a girl rejects you. Dont hover around her like a simp. Life is not Hollywood where u treat her good and she somehow realize the you're one

She has her reason and you should have moved already on and forget her. She's not worth it.

[4getN4feit]

true but this is also a close friend I've known for a very long time.

[RyanK9b]

Then stay friends.. Push her into the friendzone. She doesn't deserve your attention or commitment.

[BoopBoopBeep]

^this

[GoingNooWhere]

Why would you waste your time trying a 3rd time with the same woman? Chasing after her is stopping you from finding someone who will actually want to spend their life with you.

[HappyWoman34]

Hmmm, do you really want to be someone's 'Mr. Good Enough;' whom they settle for? I've found myself in a similar situation in the past.

[4getN4feit]

this one of my close friends I've known for years though

[HappyWoman34]

Same applies. I’ve got a guy who’s blocked me twice on social media telling me he loves me, misses me, wants me, wants a family and is single. This is after accusing me of wanting his money and following me around online and in person for over a year. After telling me he can’t physically bear to be intimately touched and is a virgin. He was a friend, too. Wouldn’t you say sometime who gives so many mixed messages and won’t acknowledge you by text and blocked you twice is someone who just couldn’t bear to be intimately touched.. by me? and just wants to settle for me now, because he thinks he can and no one else wants him?

[HappyWoman34]

You’re going to do what you want to do anyway and you have to make your own mistakes and learn from them. If you’re fine with being settled for because you’re safe and she can’t do better, that’s your business.

[4getN4feit]

I see. I will consider this. There is more too but I didn't want to go into detail. But thanks

[HappyWoman34]

Fair enough.

[HappyWoman34]

Well, I didn’t say this to hurt you, rather to protect you by sharing my experience of having the same thing happen.

[4getN4feit]

I understand. Things can really go sour trying to turn a friendship into relationship.

[HappyWoman34]

Yeah, that’s all I was trying to say. To try to protect you.

[4getN4feit]

Thanks, I will confront her about all of this.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Going nowhere fast, brother. Read the room.