Either you or him have to make the first step and forget the pride that prevents you to do it.
He seems to be on the shy side because his behavior leads me to believe that he fears yet another negative move from you. If you really care for this guy, then you will initiate the next contact and say things the way they are, without embellish things.
If he was devastated, then he is mostly at fault for not initiating a new contact prior to you leaving. He was hoping you would reach out but you were either too proud to do it or you were afraid of rejection.
If you want this relation to be successful, then you have to jump over your own shadow because it does not seem that he will do it. Just explain in your own words how you felt and how you feel now. Good luck.
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Seems like a weird situation. I personally would just move on. If you’ve shown him that you’re now interested and he’s shown he’s not, there’s not more you can (or should) do. Sounds like he still may be bitter about the initial rejection as well. I’d advise to just keep recovering from the past situation until someone healthily shows mutual interest.
If it was me. There is no way around me. Im very very strong with my no's so if you hear a no from me, it surely won't change unless the situation changes
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Sounds like he was playing games u can't get a guy that dont want to get got if he is asking for bi contact your pretty much fucked there
Can’t. Good thing is women don’t try.
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