Am I unattractive to women if they aren’t friendly don’t try to talk to me or be around for long?

[Tomisworthless]

I never experience friendliness from women or flirting, and typically just have them make jokes with their friends at my expense. Am I just not good enough and considered inferior so I’m treated poorly and with no respect

[Funshr00ms]

Your username answers your first question : ( girls do shy away from more introverted people but when you also make jokes at your expense it gives off bad vibes. You might be a really good person but you need to be more confident in yourself, there are good people and bad people and some girls are gonna be mean ash but you have to prove to them you have the upper hand because you’re not gonna entertain their jokes. Try to start small talk with people more often or just complimenting small things like accessories, clothing without being obviously flirtatious

[Tomisworthless]

I literally don’t have to say anything, my worthlessness comes from my life of being treated as such

[Funshr00ms]

Well in my opinion you have a cute pfp and good potential but some girls can’t find a guy that won’t stand up for himself attractive. I don’t think you should ever go for girls that talk down on you, but if you at least maturely (don’t get super upset ik it can be hard but people are rude and judgmental and can start more bad rumors) shut down their antics then you’ll prove you have self worth and that’s the first step into you realizing you are worth so much more than that. I know you can’t just stop and change you’re whole life but step by step you can make differences : ) Im not sure where you live where people are so disrespectful but I know where I live out in Oregon you would fit in nicely : ( I hope you find some real self confidence cause you don’t deserve to be treated like that

[Tomisworthless]

Im in Yakima Wa

[Funshr00ms]

GIRLL NO WONDER. There is literally nothing out there 😧😧 you need yourself an alt baddie, come to Portland.

[Tomisworthless]

Im a conservative lol I don’t want a progressive woman

[Funshr00ms]

Oh. Well you answered the problem to your question then. Ofc they’re gonna be bitches

[Tomisworthless]

Why is that?

[Tomisworthless]

What did you mean by potential and also why did you call me girl lol

[kylee2437]

No, you most likely just have a more introverted personality and women tend to shy away from men that have a closed off personality - actually women in general shy away from people that have a closed off personality. I have trouble making friends because of my closed off personality.

[Honest-Matt]

You're handsome so I would conclude it's more so your personality is "unattractive". I would look at the way you carry yourself, how you look (posture, demeanour, fashion), how you are perceived at first impression, and how you respond to what people say and do, etc.

[Curmudgeon]

"and typically just have them make jokes with their friends at my expense." And WHY, praytell, do you hang out with them or even give them any of your time?

[Tomisworthless]

Nah these are just women out in public regardless of profession

[Tomisworthless]

Or setting

[Curmudgeon]

And you know this how? But here is some advice: develop your own interests and go make money. Ignore them.

[Tomisworthless]

They make it obvious? Lol.

[KrakenAttackin]

Keep in mind that women believe 80% of men are "unattractive" (statistically impossible), and only consider the top 4% of men to be very attractive. This is why the top 4% of men get to run through girls like crazy.

So, don't worry about what women think/like, they are wildly delusional.

[Tomisworthless]

Lmao I know they are, the modern era has caused a over inflated self worth and ego to women

[WanderingLoveWizard]

They ain't talking to me either, bud. Don't worry about it

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Nah.