Do you think a lot of women look or give off vibes that say don't Approach me?

[jasco]

I don't think a lot of woman realize that most men are shy, well around my age were shy. Yea their are confident men out their but the ones around my age that are just bursting with confidence more than likely are the ones who are either players or just really friendly. More than likely players from what I have seen. Most men would agree that if a woman has a group of friends around her stay away, if a woman is by herself and looks drunk or out of it, stay away, if a woman looks busy or looks like she's going somewhere important its better to leave her alone, when she's at the gym don't hit on her. So in short due to all of this for some men it can be difficult to find a way to ask a woman out. What time, place and how. Of course ladies you can make this easier by using the correct body language, that being smile, looking friendly, being polite, not being stuck up, being a good listener, act and look interested in a guy. Body language and/or actions will always convey more words ever will. If someone is uncomfortable, they don't have to say it. You can see it easily if you pay attention and know what to look for. So ladies for the ones who aren't getting approach, try not having what people call a bitch face or a face that doesn't look inviting. Look happy, smile, and you will see one hell of a change.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I always thought I looked approachable and a few months ago someone told me I had a resting bitch face, came as a fluffing surprise to me.

Just to say, it's not always something that's done intentionally.

And also, it's not like I want to sit like a little puppy, waiting to get approached with this fake smile on my lips. I'm gonna be myself, and if I don't have a reason to smile, I'm not going to.

[Katya98]

We need to be easier on each other. And I think this applies primarily to guys, not girls.

[jasco]

How so?

[oh_k789]

"How so?".

Selfishly, and self-centeredly. That's "how so".

[jasco]

@oh_k789 what do you mean?

[Katya98]

Guys are trying to pretend to be someone they are not.

[jasco]

@Katya98 ok so what should they do

[oh_k789]

It was a comment on her "I think it applies primarily to guys".

[Katya98]

Just be yourself. This is a universal rule for all people :)

[jasco]

@Katya98 if that work most guys wouldn't have a problem with dating

[Katya98]

Naturally, this alone is not enough. A lot depends on the nature of the guy and the girl.

[Chthou95]

Yeah but it won't change. a lot of women though definitely act stuck up and rude for no reason. They get too much attention from simps so it goes to their heads and they act a certain way towards guys they're not attracted to

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, some girls have that look that says "don't take even one step in my direction or I will cut off your balls."

[jasco]

Yea I have seen some

[Isismoonie]

Yes I do this and for good reason. It’s a defense mechanism. Some men will approach women asking for their numbers, etc, in a violent manner. A very confronting manner and demeanor. I’m sorry to the guys who aren’t like that but we have to protect ourselves.

[_Just_A_girl_]

If they have rbf

[Anonymous]

Just believe yourself