Is sassiness attractive in women?

[Alice2398]

Im naturally very sassy and have a very witty, quick mouth. I think a lot of guys find it funny and cute as im very innocent looking but can sure put someone in there place if needed.

My boyfriend says he loves it and he finds it so funny when i put him in his place. I see guys trying to piss me off on purpose just so they can get a reaction. I used to work with around 10 men or more and i was known for putting them in their place and my boss and co workers always rooted for me when I did. I see guys do that little smirk when i give them a little attitude.

Think guys find seeing a 5ft, shy girl lose her shit because they think its cute but i could be wrong and they could be laughing for other reasons

[aWes0MeNeSs]

It probably depends on the person, but I would say that it depends on the definition of "sassy", too, and whether or not it's overdone.

Personally, I know a few girls who are "sassy" in a hateful way, and people just see them as snotty, smartass bitches and try to stay away from them.

I also think there's a difference between bitchiness and confidence/standing up for yourself.

However, guys laughing at you might be doing it because they don't take you seriously and just think it's funny to piss you off and see your reaction.

[Agem123]

Yes it is. I'm the same and boys tend to love my personality.

[jemismyname]

yeah, somebody says/does something stupid, but rather than publicly humiliate that person, like maybe you even agree with them sarcastically, but with a straight tone (so they can't tell), but you give me *that look*, maybe slack your jaw a little bit, and you roll your eyes, but you cover for it by blowing a strand of hair out of your face.

For some reason that one thing makes me FALL HARD!!

[winterfox10]

Sassiness can be quite funny. As long as you know where the line is, and you are getting disrespectful about it, I would probably find the sassiness quite charming.

Anytime anyone starts giving someone else attitude, it has to be done with that little understanding of where the lines are and when it's appropriate to give them a hard time.

[JackSmy]

Is it really sassy, or just standing up for yourself and saying things that make them know you aren't just going to take their BS?
I like confident women, assertive, and don't let me get away with sht! Seems like a real 'Equal' with that, and I respect that.

[Lliam]

I can be, as long as she isn't mean. Sassiness can just be a good sense of witty humor and, yes, a way of putting people in their place without being a hostile, defensive, in-your-face bitch. You sound great.

[Ripper_E]

No it's not attractive at all to me. We all lose our shit every once in a while. In my experience they always get put in their place because they do it to themselves.
It's far more attractive to me for a woman to stay level headed. Which can be hard for anyone sometimes.

[someginger]

Yeah I would find it attractive, I prefer funny witty people over someone who's going to tell me what happened on love island or some similar bull shit

[Trooper205]

I personally like my Girl the way She is: Very Shy, Sweet and Understanding... With a slight Dominance in Bed... ❤️

[gemgem]

I don’t know if they think it’s attractive or just funny. Like a little chihuahua yapping at somebody thinking they are big and tough.

[garak]

Sassiness is sexy, erotic and fun but keep in mind being to sassy could get you a good spanking. there have been a few times I had to put a sassy girl over my knee lift her skirt lower her panties and give her a good spanking (with love)

[LoU_Hades]

It's funny. Something like a little pinscher barks on Rottweiler

[TallAnon]

There's a thin line between witty/fun and bullshit drama queen - please shut up.
You'll just have to gauge people their reaction and stop if you go too far.

[WhoStoleMySock]

I love it, a girl like that usually has a fun personality and is someone that will give just as good as she gets (hopefully, if she doesn't have a thick skin that'll be an issue!)

[Thatsamazing]

No, not usually. Only a little bit, sure, but if it's excessive, no.

[KaidenM]

If a woman dosnt have a little bit of sass and fire it won't work cause I dont hold back she better be bringing that same energy

[art84]

I can't stand sassiness, it's not attractive at all.

[red324]

Yeah because it means you won't get offended easily and I refuse to walk on eggshells.

[LEADFOOTboi]

oh yeahhhhhhh... sassy and firey works... very attractive trait

[Armourdillo]

No, it's immature. It's a way of her putting her Insecurities on others and bringing others down. It's toxic.

[OddBeMe]

It is hot. But I think it’s a good think we find it hot.

[TonyBologna25]

Witty is attractive, but sassy isn’t.

[miMichael]

It is very attractive

[pizzalovershouse]

Not usely a great smile hs best